How can I change who I really am?

Will yourself to change the next two and half months, so that you start the year 2012 a different person.

If you had been negative all the while, avoid being impatient, mean,inconsiderate, boastful, arrogant or a bully. It is not a question of being religious or not -- just conduct yourself positively and in a manner that does not irritate or harm others.

It should have a lasting and welcoming change, and many good things will come to you. You gain more respect, and love this way. Promise.

Blessings! And standby for some nice comments coming from your parents, siblings, relatives, teachers, etc. Cheers! :-))

This is a question of attitude and how you think about yourself and life. Know this, there is nothing in life you can control except...how you choose to feel about things. You have the power to decide for yourself if you like or don't like something, if you are willing to accept things or not accept things. Begin with yourself. Accept yourself as you are, warts and all. You are perfect just as you are. All your life you have been making choices. Start making different choices if you don't like the results of the choices you have been making. Life can be as simple or as complicated as you make it. Know your goals, where you want to be, what kind of life you want to live. When you know this, when it comes time to make a decision ask yourself how your decision will give you the kind of life you want or not. These are daily choices you make so choose wisely.

If you rely on God to change you, good luck. That's like saying I'll sit here and do nothing until God does something for me. It's much more productive to rely on your goals and try to move toward them, little by little and day by day.