what can I do with my overweight gf?

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ok my girlfriend is being getting really big this last couple of years what can I do she only likes to eat junk food and this is also affecting my life Im 6' and use to be 170 now Im almost 200 pounds but since Im tall doesn't show that much she just don't want to do nothing she join the gym but she only goes like 1 time per week or none sometimes all she wants to do is watch tv, now she is 230 and she denies that she is fat, she is always tired I really love her but don't find her atractive any more or sexual life is really bad now,and my main concern is that her mom has diabetis so she is propence to get it too with the way of life she has,what should I do,and please don't go with the love her the way she is or look at ur self first cuz people that say that don't care about their partners is like letting some one eat till they died

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that the thing she wont eat nothing healthy she wont eat greens or yogurt cuz she say they taste nasty and well we don't live together so I can help her with the junk food,and she hates anal don't know how is this relevant but the first answer say it

Taint Wrangler · Accepted Answer

i hate to say it, anal is you only option.

IUSMILE · Answer

Well maybe you two can do a diet together?
Maybe set a goal. Like eat something healthy at least once a day or switch all the junk food with something healthy like yogurt or dried fruits or vegetable chips

Ugly · Answer

Use this to your advantage, try to seem romantic by sugguesting dates you may not have done before, for example a romantic bike ride or walk though the park, pack a healthy picnic. Or you could be honest with her, tell her you love her dearly but her weight is becomming a concern to you, sound more caring and worried about her as oppose to be unattracted to her. Encourage daily activities, and promote her to do active things, example dont just tell her to go to the gym, go to the gym with her, and do things with her to get her excersising. Also mention her eating habits are not the best ones

Lynn V · Answer

Your gf is extremely self-destructive. It’s no different than being a drug addict - she knows what she is doing will cause significant health problems in the near future, but she doesn’t care as long as she’s satisfying herself right now. That is a recipe for disaster in a relationship, because there are things that require delayed gratification, and she’s not willing to do them. It’s best, for your health especially, to end this. Or you're sacrificing your future health for getting laid at this moment.

Mmmm · Answer

Your girlfriend isn't responsible for your weight gain so what she eats isn't affecting your weight - what you eat is your decision.  Just because she eats junk food, it doesn't stop you from cooking healthy meals for yourself, does it?

If she's in denial about being overweight, have you tried things like going to her place and cooking healthier meals for her?  She can get used to eating vegetables and other healthier foods.  Have you suggested that you eat somewhere other than at junk food places?  Have you been to the gym with her?  People who are in denial about things can sometimes see things differently if they have support and a boyfriend who leads by example.  

Good luck!

Note · Answer

Some people have to make mistakes first. I don't think she is going to change anything until a problem actually surfaces.

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