Who was right or wrong in this situation? 10 POINTS?

I think you should tell him to go bang his head on a wall. He is an a** and he’s trying to use you. He is one of those "move from girl to girl" sorta guy. What you did was right, rub it in his face and make him feel sorry. He needs to get a life and stop flirting. Block his Facebook immediately and if your friends I’d delete him and tell him how it feels. Males these days! Ima do me from now on!

You might be wrong and you might be right...probably not the answer you wanted to hear. It depends on why you think he's a player...like if he's your boyfriend and you see him still kissing or holding hands with his ex then you have every right to be mad. However, if you just heard from someone that he's a player...the person that told you could be lying or he could have changed how he acts... maybe he was a player before but now he really only loves you...you should only go by what's happening now and if you have no reason to believe he's a player then you have no right to assume anything

nobody was right. You made many assumptions based on rumors that you assumed

were true. If you were enjoying his attention, why did you ruin it? If he was playing

you, you would have found out eventually. Maybe he was playing the game the only way he knows how and now he is going to quit the game or maybe seek a less jealous partner.

When you are having fun and games with someone and they suddenly

become possessive and domineering, it can ruin the game.

On the other hand, you just might be right. You are learning difficult social skills

either way.

How did you find out? I know a guy that is rumored to be a player yet he supposedly had a girlfriend for a couple of years too. Everyone talked sh** about him. Personally I never had a problem with him. He and I had good talks and he gave me a hug, as though he really cared for me, not a c'mon give me sex kind of hug. I never really thought much of what I heard because I dont listen to hearsay. If I dont have foolproof evidence, talk is just that. Ive had so many people say many bad things about me too and none of them are true. People like to talk so I think you should listen to your head on this one; not everyone else. You should talk to him and tell him about the stuff you heard and see what he has to say. OR you could just give him a chance and see for yourself. Absolutely dont sleep with him.

Um, i don't believe you will have to "dump" your pal. Essentially you might go down 2 routes... 1. Talk to both of them, see should you and the lady might get alongside, you certainly not know she could turn out to be your buddy also. Let your fine friend know the way you think just a little like shes going behind your back and seeing any individual you dislike, now not in a nasty way simply let her be aware of subtly. Relying on how they each react both you may also to find yourself with an additional friend or have a mutual agreement to your friend to not see the other lady as you dont get on. Or (quite extra agressive) 2. Inform the girl to stay away from your satisfactory friend. Then confront your buddy about it, if she doesnt comply with discontinue seeing the girl then give her an ultimatum that both the woman goes, otherwise you go. This fashion you see if your friend virtually likes you, and if now not then youve already done the dumping. Your alternative. Good good fortune

I don't blame you for being mad. Personally I don't think either of you were right in this particular situation. You shouldn't believe everything you hear and he should stop posting his problems on Facebook. Just tell him your sorry for listening to the gossip. Because honestly that's probably all it is. I mean come on he was with a girl for 2 years! A player would have a new girl like every week. He should apologize to for being a jerk. I hope I helped! Good luck!:) and if you ever need advice kik me THATGIRL_1D

Okay I'm done :P

Your in a pretty tough situation here but i think you messed up by confronting him so harshly. Maybe he WAS a player but wanted to change or maybe he could still be a player i think you should give him a chance because you seem to have a really big crush on him. Try talking to him and working things out but it wasn't entirely your fault it was his fault by being a player in the first place. I think you should give him a chance and see what happens, who knows maybe he changed.

I mean.... I have guys like this in my school too who are major players. I feel like you had a right to be concerned and not fully trust him. On the other hand, you shouldn't have really gotten mad just by rumors or things you heard... But, also he shouldn't have posted that on Facebook cause it was kinda mean... no one was really right or wrong cause it's so complicated.

you're wrong.

who are you to give him **** you two are not together. Plus, the past is the past and rumors are rumors. you assumed it was true and instead of politely inquiring you bitched.everyone has baggage. And wtf, pulling the your just like other guys based on rumors. wow... you should have asked him if he has a gf. if i was him i wouldn't talk to you again. Apologize and see what happens.we find new love to get over old ones,who cares if he still has feelings for an ex,shes a EX.

All the things you were bitching about are here-say. You have no actual proof. Instead of accusing him you should have asked him &if he's never given you a reason to not believe him then you should have believed him! He has a reason to be mad.You were wrong, fix it!