i am currently married but going through a hard time at present?

okay im going to defend u from accusing aswers.

1. you married him or loved him because u loved him. u needed him. ur life needed him to survive. you had nothing, and by compromising you got at least 30 percent happiness, and security as opposed to 0 percent when u were abandoned, discarded and heartbroken. if people here think u should have waited for someone else, just dont listen to them. they can say all this bs because they have options.

2. if he is about commiting adultry. dont listen to the people calling u pathetic for entering something like this. because i know lady u cried before without him about 50 percent more than the thought of him decieving u.

3. moral of the story. he was something u needed to continue living. pain never ends, but love fills in the spaces.i know for a fact u were happier at least 60 x with him, than before he and u joined together.

4. so please sis, just be good to him. just keep him happy. make him want the both of you. ( dont hate my answer)

i love love. i cant stand not havng any.

Let him. You can't change a person that doesn't want to change. Think about how hard it is to change yourself. Depending on where you live, the adulterer will be handing over his set of the house keys, child support (if applicable), as well as alimony. If he cheats, he's not the man you're destined to spend forever with. You'll never trust him again and if you keep him around after because "you love him," then you'll basically drive yourself bonkers. You'll get paranoid and believe me, snooping through phones and emails isn't relaxing. You're better off letting life take it's course and embracing the change. I hope for your heart's sake, he isn't and doesn't. But if that's the case, I recommend you seek counseling for yourself. Especially if he isn't actually on the verge and you're being insecure and not trusting him. Marriage isn't easy. It's even harder when you don't believe anything they say. For your own piece of mind, let it go until he does.

Are you certain that your husband is on the point of having an affair? If you are I think you should try, when you can be calm, to sit down to talk to him, tell him how you feel without recriminations and ask what he plans to do about your daughter. Communication is the only way out but you must be in a calm frame of mind or it may turn into a shouting match which would be completely counterproductive. Good luck, I hope your suspicions are unfounded.

Your choices: stay and tolerate the adultery or divorce him. Many a woman has divorced a man who wouldn't keep it in his pants, and you'll be no different, because your husband is no different than any of the other loser men around. If he's willing to throw his entire marriage away and betray you like that, you have the right to leave him and enjoy your life with someone else. Good luck - he's left you no choice.

Why is your husband "on the verge" of adultry? Easy to blame him for cheating, but WHY is he looking to cheat? What is wrong with your marriage where he feels he needs to go elsewhere for what he SHOULD be getting from you? Women have a LOT more power and influence over their husbands than they realize or sometimes want to admit. There are ways you can keep your husband from having an affair. Maybe you should consider them!

"On the verge"?

Either get control of this guy or end the marriage.

Go to counseling and start trying to work out your issues.

how is he about to commit adultery??