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    When I try to play it tells me king requires exployer 5.5 or higher? I have 9?? HELP!!!

    1 AnswerSecurity1 decade ago
  • Love triangle.., please help!!?

    I was seeing these two very special guys back in 05'. They both new about each other, one was 38 and divorced, the other 58 and separated. I was 43 and divorced.

    I was very much in love with the 58 yr old and i chose him over the 38 yr old and i hurt him very much. I felt horrible, because he is a great person and i cared for him too. We have remained friends and text each other from time to time.

    The 58 yr old got divorced and we moved in together and he led me to believe that we would get married as soon as his adult children adjusted to everything. Truth is.., it's been 3yrs and they still don't want to meet me or be around me. He is afraid they will shut him outta their lives if he marries me without their blessings. So now im starting to resent him for not standing up for his love for me. He hasn't even given me an engagement ring, he gave me a promise ring instead. I was so proud of that ring, of that little commitment, but it was so high school, not something a 58 yr old should give his woman, right?

    The 38 yr old has told me that he is in love with me and that his feeling haven't changed and that he wished things were different between us. He has told me this a few times during the past three yrs and he has not been serious with anyone else because of me.

    I thought i had made the right decision, i led with my heart, but now i'm not so sure i've done the right thing.

    What do you think?

    7 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
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  • If you knew you would never be accepted by your BF kids....?

    He is 63 and I am 45. He has grown kids, the oldest being my age from his first marriage and from his second marriage the youngest is like 24. He has been divorced for 2yrs and we have lived together ever since. All of his family knows that we live together.

    I didn't force him to leave his wife for me, but he did. I tried to get him to go back and be faithful to her since the truth was out (he had rather be hated for the truth, than loved for a lie). He did go back about 3 times to work things out, but he says he couldn't live without me.

    He hasn't forced the issue, but his kids don't want anything to do with me. I'm left out at Christmas and Thanksgiving and all of the rest.

    He doesn't want to get married until they accept me and I guess I can understand that to a degree, but aren't they running his life?

    I want to do the right thing and get married, LORD knows we both have messed up enough in our lives.., but in a perfect world.....

    Im sorry for their hurt and I would like to move forward as them as my friends or at the least talking to each other. It hurts that my BF won't marry me because of them. If I were in his shoes, I wouldn't let my kids stand in the way of doing the right thing and it is the right thing cuz he ain't going back to his ex.

    I mean we've made enough mistakes, why not put an end to them and do the right thing. His Pastor says the same. I'm starting to believe he just used me to get out of his situation and that he doesn't really love me at all.

    Should I ask him to leave my house and this relationship? I'm starting to resent him because of this and that ain't good !

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  • What does it mean if my bf still carries a wedding picture of him and his ex in his billfold ?

    They have been divorced for 3yrs and they don't communicate at all unless he is lying to me. They have 4 grown children together. We have been living together for nearly 3yrs and his grown children want nothing to do with me. He will not marry me until they come around, what should I do? I don't want to live like this forever!

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  • It's been three years, when will his children want to meet me ?

    My boyfriend left his wife three years ago and has been divorced for two. I'm partially to blame for the divorce, but he was tired of living a lie and left. He told his wife and grown children the truth and moved in with me, by the way he is 17 yrs older than me.

    I want to get married and do the right thing, but he is afraid of losing his kids. They know we live together and they have forgiven him, go to lunch with him, have him over for Christmas and special occasions, but I am left out of all these things.They don't even mention me or ask about our life together.

    He has given me a "promise" ring but will not give me an engagement ring until, I guess his kids want to know me and accept me. I realize they were hurt very badly, but it takes two, I didn't do this all by myself, goes to show blood is thicker than water.

    These are Christian people I am talking about here, I don't think they hate me, they just don't want anything to do with me. It hurts really bad, because I love their Dad very, very much and he loves me, doesn't he?

    This can't go on very much longer. I have been beyond patient and I don't know what to do. Should I approach them??

    HELP !!!

    9 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
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    I'm a 45 yr old non smoker and this is scary !! Could it be arthritis ? Help me out....

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  • How much time is enough time?

    I've been living with this wonderful man for about 2yrs. We are madly in love. We are both divorced and free to move on with our lives. BUT..., he refuses to introduce me to his adult children until they ask. Now..., I can appreciate this.., but when is enough, enough. They know about me and he has talked about me to them.., but they don't seem to want to get to know me or meet me at all. All of our disagreements have been about this and about how he doesn't want to marry me until the children are used to the idea. I'm a very patient person..., very, very, patient.., but when is it time to say "no more"!! Please help!!!

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  • Why won't he marry me?

    He is 17 yrs older than me. We have been living together for about a year. His divorce was final 2 months ago.., mine 10 months ago. He has grown children., I have none. We are very much in love and he show me in everyway except he hurts my feelings by not even giving me a promise ring or something!!! I can understand wanting to wait for a period of time before marrying again., but I cant understand not even wanting to give me a symbol of his love and commitment. Besides.., we are going thru the motion of marriage now. We both believe in GOD and want to do our best to do his will and abide by his law. One thing I forgot to mention is that I havent met his kids because he left their mother for me. He wasnt happy there and there was no reason to lead her on anymore. Of course they were hurt, but have come to deal with it. They know he lives with me and he talks to them about me, but I havent met any of them face to face. I want to do the right thing..., what should I do??

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  • What if your living with a married man ........,?

    In the process of a divorce, he has grown children that know you exist, but he refuses to tell them the truth about who he goes places with. For example one of his son's asked him where he was staying at and his reply was.., with friends. I told him he told his son a lie.., he says he has not. He has come clean about everything else, why not this ? He has told his wife about me and that he loves me..., but he says he wants to wait until after the divorce is final so there will be less hurt.., duh !? I don't get it and it hurts my feelings. I love him very much and he loves me too. His children are grown adults..., what should I do guys ???

    12 AnswersMarriage & Divorce2 decades ago