ya habibi

first of all i understand that it wasn't smart of me to hook up with such a person. so please no lectures. I'm aware that i wasn't using my brain. anyways, as mentioned i had sex one time with a friend of mine that is an ex junkie. now he told me that he was clear of any stds but i still worry that theres a chance i could of contracted hiv. am i just being paranoid and stereotypical? has anyone ever found themselves is this predicament? if so what was your outcome? i plan on going and getting tested sometime today, just wanted to see if anyone had any advice..

i have been told by my employer that if anyone representing a beer company whos product we sell asks if we sell it that i am to say no because we purchase the alcohol from the grocery store rather than contracting it through them... i get the feeling that that is wrong in some way..

I work in a family owned chain restaurant. when I first began working here, I was told I had to purchase slip resistant shoes but from a specific company. however, I was expected to front all the money. isn't my employer suppose to cover the cost?

so i found out i have scabies and was given 5% permethrin and im wondering since it is a neurotoxin, should i avoid my dog? she is a 3 pound chihuahua and she usually sleeps with me at night but im scared she might absorb some of the neurotoxins from my body..

i am 21 and my boyfriend is 25, we've been dating for 2 years now and my bf is hinting at popping the question. the problem is, my dad doesn't approve of him. my father is extremely involved in his religion (Judaism) and doesnt approve of sex before marriage. well, he found out about 7 months ago that i had been sleeping with my bf and he gave me an ultimatum.. either I continue living with my dad and never see my bf again or i move out.. well i chose to move out. although i believe the same way my father does, i am not as strict as he is. i am in love with my bf and i know he is the person i want to spend the rest of my life with but i also love my father and dont want him to be disappointed in me and perhaps have nothing to do with me. i dont know what to do... i need some advice

i am from southern california and have a trip planned to new york for new years :] what type of coat will be my best bet, down or wool?

i took my nuvaring out before my boyfriend and i had sex and then forgot to put it back in for two days, the day after i put it back in, we had unprotected sex. is there a greater chance of pregnancy now?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LlABElJPk-E

it explains it all.

i was in a relationship that was off and on for three years and he constantly cheated on me.. it was a manipulative and abusive relationship and i felt like i couldnt live without him so i would always come back.. i myself was not 100% faithful, there were times when i would find myself looking for someone to love me because i was empty with the guy i was with but couldnt leave.. now, 2 years later, im in a very serious relationship and i find myself not able to trust the guy im with even though he's never given me any reason to worry.. i feel like im taking out my anger and fear from my ex on this guy im with now [i dont have feelings for my ex, btw] and im scared if i dont get this under control he'll leave me. how do i leave the trust issues in the past?

if you were fired from a previous job and you own up to it and have truly learned your lesson, will they look past it?

so i pretty much want anything that makes you wanna shake your ***..

for example:

ice cream paint job

day n night

sexy b*tch...

so i have been stretching my ears now for the past couple months and i recently went from an 8g to a 6g. My left ear, however, didnt take the stretch as well. it has been weeping and itching for the past two weeks, at first the liquid was green now it is yellow and it doesnt weep as often as before. although, in the last couple days i have developed something that is quit bothersome... i have a rather large lump in my ear next to the fistula.. it doesnt hurt, but when squeezed, it pushes more of the substance out. what should i do? i dont want to downsize at all.. i've been taking it out, cleaning it with dial and hydrogen peroxide [i know it isnt good cause it dries it out but nothing else seems to do the job] after i clean it, i put some neosporin on it and pop the plug back in [which are metal] any other suggestions? besides sss..

i stretched my ears from an 8g to a 6g about two weeks ago, they went in pretty easily, my left ear was a little more difficult but its my problem ear. well since then i have been experiencing some weeping and tenderness when sleeping in the left ear. i've been cleaning it with dial soap and doing sss when i remember.. today, however, i was cleaning it and took out the jewelry to get a good cleaning in, when i grabbed my ear, i noticed a lump off to the side of the piercing between the fistula and where my ear connects to my face... is this just a pocket of puss or is it more serious? what should i do?

so i work at a clothing store and i receive a discount when i purchase something. well i forgot my credit card at home and wanted to get a necklace and a pair of earrings for my boyfriend to give to his sister. so i call my boyfriend and tell him to come to the store and buy it himself with my discount. well.... you're not allowed to do that, however a manager has to do the transaction and he said it was fine. is there a chance i could get in trouble? or is it fine since the manager did it anyways? it completely slipped my mind that the discount only applys to you and YOU have to buy it. pretty much you cant buy something for someone and be reimbursed which is pretty much what happened minus the secretiveness.

i want to buy tickets for my bf to see chargers vs. bengals, the only seats i can seem to get are section F56 row 9 seats 9-10, i dont know anything about football so are these seats good or bad?

i plan on wearing some black slacks and a nice silk blouse with a juicy couture necklace and a pair of black pumps. is that too dressy? also what kind of questions should i be expecting to answer? advice from current or former employees would be amazing. thanks.

are people just different and see the boundaries of conversation differently? i personally talk about anything and everything and dont feel bothered when people tell me very personal things, in fact i find it interesting.... is that odd?

considering all the blackmail and harm that could come your way if you were to win a large amount of money can you choose to lay low?

so everything will be going just fine and all of a sudden i get angry and start arguing with my boyfriend, over stupid little things like he didn't come visit me at work or he didn't text me back quick enough. i also tend to let my imagination get the best of me, like when he doesn't text me back right away, i already have a whole cheating scenario conjured up in my mind, but i know he is faithful to me. is this a problem like bipolar disorder or am i just insecure? serious answers please...

this news was a complete shock to me, i always took good care of myself and asked partners before i engaged in any kind of sexual activity if they had been checked, but my fiance didnt know and today we both found out after i insisted he go to the doctor after a suspicious soar appeared on his privates. can anyone give me some info, perhaps people who have it. what can i expect? is your sex life different? does it get better over time? i could really use some support and help right now..