When my wife pee pees, she leaves the door wide open...?

It's a matter of personal preference. I grew up in a family of 10 and never saw anyone going to the bathroom. I've been married 20 years - we don't do it in front of one another....my sister do in front of their husbands....Personally, I think life's better when some things are kept private.

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I cant say I have ever had a relationship with a woman that has worried about closing the door when they pee when they are only around me. I also have never closed the door because my gf or wife was around. Seeing a girl pee certaintly doesnt bother me. I always thought if your intimate enough with your partner to have sex, than whats the big deal? Sex is a LOT more explicit than that. Now poo is another story, that's a private act and it smells bad. If I didnt have to, I wouldnt be around when even I take a poop, lol. But peeing, I would never ask any girl to close the door when she goes, nor would it bother me to stand next to her or have a conversation (which I've certaintly done). This seems like something for people who are overly conservative or have a hangup. My hunch is also that they probably have hangups when it comes to intimate acts and what they are willing to do or let be done to them during sex? Just my theory!

My wife is the same, and we've held entire conversations before while she goes, pees, flushes and the conversation is still going on.

Now going number 2 is a different story. It's smells a little differnt than pee, plus, when a chick pees, it's not like you see it, you just hear it. Pooping, you can hear and smell The sounds and smell of number 2 usually arn't as pleasant as something that can be mistaken for a trickling faucet.

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When my wife pee pees, she leaves the door wide open...?

And she thinks its odd that I close the door...When I tell her to close the door, she laughs and says it's no big deal. She does close the door when going poo...seriously, I think people should close the door when doing their business...Am I over reacting?

Some people like to have boundaries in this area, others don't. Me and my partner are the same. I'm quite happy to leave the door open, because that's what my family did (we were all girls so it didn't really matter). My partner on the other hand is the opposite. He refuses to let me go to the loo when he's brushing his teeth or having a wash, or vice versa. The bathroom is private as far as he's concerned. I can never understand why he's like he is about it, but I can appreciate his boundaries and respect them. I don't think your over-reacting, but I do think if it bothers you so much, you should explain to her that you really don't like it, and that you don't like that she laughs at you about it. She probably thinks you just joking, so you need to make her see you are serious.

That just means she's comfortable with you. When she closes the door when she goes poop, it's probably because that is never a comfortable issue no matter what. But, I do the same exact thing. I am comfortable with my man. Luckily, he doesn't have a problem with it and he likes that I am comfortable and open with him, but if he did have a problem and brought it up to me, I would definitely respect his wishes and close the door!

After the initial wearing off of privacy issues, maybe 2-3 yrs into our relationship, my husband and I have had an "open door" policy. But quite frankly, over the last few years, I too, would appreciate reverting back to the initial privacy standards. Tell her it bothers you, and you'd appreciate a closed door policy.

If that's your preference that's fine...I don't worry about it when I'm home alone or with family or a someone I'm really close with. I just don't bother with it...

It shows her comfort level around you...you don't have to look in there when she's in there, you know. It doesn't typically take that long to pee.

My husband does the same thing. I hate it ! Close the door and give us some privacy we don't want to hear them pee!