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Does anyone have an ex husband like mine?

Ex husband always taking me to court over the children who are now adults. Ex husband 'abandoned' his relationship with our children since 2003. He doesn't want to continue paying child support, even though our youngest child is a full time college student.

Ex husband's background: domestic violence abuser and child abuser..now divorced 11 years.

Does anyone have a similiar story to share?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    yup

    He has an afair.

    He doesnt want to pay child support.

    He stalks me.

    He take me to court every 6 months for 5 years now.

    He pays 510.0 per month and hates it.\

    He got current husband kicked out of house for one year over lies he made up.

    he wont let me move.

    unfortunatly for him i win most of the time

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, my ex husband kept threatening court if I didn't agree to whenever he wanted contact with the kids. I called his bluff and he kept painting himself into a corner. This went on from when I left around 2000 and kept going until last year when it came to a sort of stalemate. If he takes it to court again or doesnt follow the original family orders / contact arangements he will have to pay my costs for all the other times he took it to court. It took a long time but I feel he eventually learnt to appreciate just how fortunate he is to have our sons most weekends and half the school holidays and he also learnt that he can't threaten me any more. The kids are with me 60% of the time which consists of week days (before and after school and half the school holidays). I am fortunate to have flexible work hours during school hours and weekends. We eventually built a bridge and got over it....after alot of money in legal fees...and hopefully with little emotional cost

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Does anyone have an ex husband like mine?

  • 1 decade ago

    I lived 10 years off and on with an abuser. I am now free of him, and me and my children are better off without him. It took me a long time to learn I did NOT have to live that way. I really believed for a long time, I had no choice. Abusers tend to brainwash, for lack of a better word. I don't even try for child support because I don't need nor want his drug money. I can take care of my children better by myself. He is actually in prison right now and that is the way I like it!

    Source(s): I'm sorry to all the people who have dealt with and lived with people like this. (It happens to men sometimes too)
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  • 1 decade ago

    nope just the opposite

    ex wife abandon the family and took up the party life after making my life miserable for almost 10 years.

    youngest child turned 18 and graduated this year so she says she no longer should have to pay the thousands of dollars she has owed for years.

    p.s.--i asked the judge to forgive almost 8 grand years ago cuz they kept throwing her in jail--- she got out and went on the run and still refuses to pay

    its a 2 way street --- women do it also

    beat up and broke in kansas city :)

  • 7 years ago

    The now ex husband abandoned our children in 2003..here in 2014..they have nothing to do with him for years now as he abused them as well as me..spend too many years in family court..the ex always showed himself a fool in front of the judge..I was always the parent to my children, who love and respect me today and we have a wonderful relationship..

  • 1 decade ago

    I don't have a similar story but I say go to court and you and the judge can share a good laugh at the idiot!

  • Melany
    Lv 6
    4 years ago

    I thought we were friends? Help?

  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Girls: do you shave your arms?

  • Dacy
    Lv 6
    4 years ago

    Im boy but i cant sing boy songs

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