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Help!!! Caught my brother (warning:explicit!)?

I'm so confused I don't know what to do! Sorry this is kind of long.

I came home and caught my 11-year-old brother in my room. He was on my computer masterbating. At first I thought he was just looking at porn on the internet which was odd because he has his own computer in his room, but then I saw that he was looking at pictures of me that I had saved on my computer.

They are very explicit pictures that my bf took of me naked and in some of them I was even masterbating with sex toys and stuff. I don't know how he found them cuz I keep that folder hidden. There are over a hundred pictures of me everything from me posing in lingerie to closeups of my vagina. The one he was looking at when I caught him was of me with a cucumber in my you know what.

I understand why he would get turned on by pictures like that but why would he masterbate to ones of me when he could go on the internet and find ones with other girls in them? It's not like he couldn't tell who was in the pictures, you can definitely tell that it's me. When I asked him how he knew about those pictures he told me that our cousin told him. My cousin asked to use my computer the last time he was here but I don't know how he could have found them either cause he's only 9!

I'm so confused I feel bad for keeping those pictures and embarassed that they were so easy for my brother and cousin to find, but also I'm mad at them for going through my personal folders like that and especially at my brother for getting turned on and masterbating to them in my room! Ugh! I can't tell my mom because then she'll find out about the pictures and I made my brother promise not to tell her. I'm going to delete them anyway after I save them on a cd. But I don't know what to do now I'm so embarassed and I don't think I can ever look at my brother and cousin the same again. What should I do?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Tough situation. I think that 9 & 11 are quite young for that type of activity, but that ship has sailed in your situation. Basically I would say that you didn't do a good enough job hiding the pictures. It was easier for him to find them than pictures on the internet. You should sit one or both of them down and talk to them about what they saw and that it was inappropriate to view the pictures due to them being of you. Ask them if they have any questions about what they saw and make sure that they understand that if they want to look at pictures, just stay away from the ones with people that they know or at least ones with family members.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    First things first, how old are you? Sounds like you have a pretty active sex life and have been doing things that I would guess any parent with a child living under their roof would be appalled by... If you are under 18 you are putting anyone with access to that computer in a really REALLY bad situation. As far as the boys are concerned, they are curious by nature and female anatomy is very interesting to them. Your brother saw stuff that would turn on any male, at least in the physical sense and it was probably a "morbid curiosity" thing to begin with that just escalated for him. You can't be upset at him for looking at something that his cousin told him about, if anything you should be ashamed that the pictures were available for him to find that easily. It is an ugly situation, both for you and for him and there is a good chance he will have issues later in life because of it and will never see you the same again. I guess you just learned a life lesson, hope it sticks and you think before you act in the future. As far as the CD, I would be VERY careful with it and make sure you computer is completely free of those images or be prepared for them to end up online somewhere (honestly if you sent them to a bf, they are probably out there as I type this). Sorry to be harsh, but you did this to yourself...

  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Wow, well all you can do is delete them and forget all about this or do the best you can to forget it. Sorry to say this but it's obvious your brother is attracted to you in a sexual way and all you had to do was have a password on your computer honey and you would have avoided this. Kids these days are pretty damn smart when it comes to computers, so I'm not surprised they found your folder.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Look wake up and smell the beans you were dumb enough to have those pictures in unprotected mode on a computer. So on that count not the sharpest knife in the cutlery draw.

    He found it via a cousin tip off he doesn't give a toss, well he did hehehehehe, who was in those pictures he got free porn and let free willy come out to play. But he worked out it was you I presume cousin also worked out the same.

    Now girl you have a big big problem they have got something on you well don't be surprised if they use it against you sometime in the future.

    So make sure you dont piss those two off firstly second be prepared to be bullied and end up doing there homework etc becaus efor all you know 9 year old cousin could have made a copy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You should not be ashamed of taking photo's like that, i have absolutely no problem in admitting that i've taken pictures for my long term boyfriend because we spend alot of time apart unfortunately, and it helps. Even if you're not that far apart, it's still something naughty and kinky to have of each other =).

    Even though there is STILL this taboo of having sex when you're younger (myself included) and everything else that goes along with it.

    It is an incredible invasion of privacy and if i ever caught my siblings doing anything i'd hang them out to dry, i'd never do something like that to them. In all fairness, i know it may be dishonest...but perhaps, you should take the most explicit ones off your pc, hide them, and tell your mum that he was jacking off to you in lingerie (sorry for being so casual btw lol). He's going to be in a hell of alot more trouble, and maybe she can help with saying something to him?

    Or, you could simply go up, and ask him specifically why you? When he could get his own porn? I know that curiousities go mental at the start of puberty, but it's unacceptable!

    Hope this helps?

    Xx

  • 1 decade ago

    Delete the pictures and forget about it. You know what mistake you did, I won't even put pictures on CD, only if you have a safety box in the bank.

    Boys just like this, little pigs.

    End some hackers are really really young :-)

  • 1 decade ago

    You should tell your brother and cousin that they should not go through people's things. And put a password an floders you don't want people looking at.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell your brother to get some help and take those pics off. When a guy is looking at his own sister that's pretty sick. Tell him to use his own computer. GOOD LUCK

  • 1 decade ago

    I would just delete the pics and not save them. And don't pose for anymore

  • 1 decade ago

    DELETE THE FOLDER OF PHOTOS

    if your scared that your brother's gonna say something bout them to someone, delete the photos and replace them with normal ones of you!

    Hope i help, good luck Xx

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