I need some help. Every once in a while I have bad flashbacks during intimacy with my husband. I wanna cry! :(?

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I don't want to tell him because I don't want to ruin our intimacy time or have him thinking that I'm thinking about someone else cuz it's not like that but I sometimes really hate the feeling my body sensations have & I wanna start crying & throw his hands off me & I don't wanna be touched! How can I get over myself & be a good wife for my husband?! :/

Chitty · Accepted Answer

This doesn't make you a bad wife. I suggest you talk to him about it, outside of intimate times. If he's any type of good husband, he will understand. Don't ever let yourself be convinced that this makes you "bad". Because you are not bad. Something bad happened to you. But you are not bad. I would suggest also couples therapy and individual therapy. It would help a lot.

kety · Answer

i absolutely agree with chitty!!! it might just be that he's touching your "wrong" meaning wrong for you... you might not understand what is "good sex" for you... i know i have good places and "don't touch here" places...if that makes any sense to you

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I need some help. Every once in a while I have bad flashbacks during intimacy with my husband. I wanna cry! :(?

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