Do you think condoms give married men means & opportunity to cheat on their wives with other women?

Yes, you are being paranoid. The presence or absence of condoms never stopped anyone from cheating on their spouse. Condoms are basically as effective as the pull out method. So even without condoms, they could still engage in risky behavior. And there are STIs that you can get that you are not protected from by condoms.

Wow. If you're so worried about it then get on birth control and stop using condoms with your husband. I think you're thinking about it way too hard and could inadvertently start causing problems in your marriage because of your worries. He might feel bad about you not trusting him and distance himself from you which could actually lead to cheating. Some men cheat because they're no good and other men cheat because they are lacking something in the relationship they share with their wife. Just work on keeping the two of you satisfied and happy, you must have married him for a reason, you must have trusted him at some point, what happened? Has he cheated on you in the past?

No men would cheat anyway. Look how many pregnacies and abortions there have been in history. Women just used to bring their child up and pretend it that Man B was the father when really it was MAN If a man wants to cheat a condom is not going to spur him on any further.

Infidelity has existed long before the presence of birth control.

I do think it's a bit paranoid to assume that the existence of condoms means you can never have a faithfully monogamous relationship, yes.

BIRTH CONTROL PILLS,AND CONDOMS,STD COVER UP BECAUSE IF WOMEN DO NOT GIVE IT AWAY,THEN THERE WOULD BE NO CHEATING