Valentine's Day Depression...?

Talk to him. Articulate your feelings. Get your opinion across. Conversation and experessing both of your views si what makes a marriage work. Sit him down and talk to him about how you are feeling, and ask him to hear you out without saying anything until you've finished. You could ask him it as a Valentine's present (which would also highlight the fact that he makes no effort for little things like holidays).

Good luck, I know my answer sounds short, but honestly, talking is what makes it work. Hear each other out and respect the other opinion.

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Sorry, to hear that. I think honesty is always the best policy. Cook the meal and wait until your child is in bed, then use that time to have a serious talk with your husband and explain how you're feeling. Likely he won't be happy to hear this, but it's something that needs to be said. He can't fix anything he doesn't know is existing. At least give him the chance to fix things by being honest with him. Just remain calm, and don't get in a fight about this. Just expect that this can be a hard thing to hear, so he may act adversely at first, but just don't feed into his response and result in a fight. Good luck!

P.S. Valentines Day is still just a day, no need to let it get you depressed. Just focus on fixing the rough spots in your marriage, and don't dwell on the fact that it's Valentines Day. Life's too short to be depressed.

i do feel a little left out cuz i don't have a boyfriend to share it with but usually me and my single girlfriends just go hang out somewhere. but 2day I'm just treating it like regular old Saturday and lounging around the house and then later on tonight my mom is taking me and my brother out for a valentine's day dinner

It seems to me, like every marriage, you two have had some luck and not so goodluck (i.e., pregnancy #2 when I believe it's far too much pressure right now in your lives...I would have aborted immediately, especially since I had at least one child and was having problems in my marriage).

Yes, it's often quite true that we women are the nurturers and "remember-ers" of family birthdays, etc. Rather than look at it as a deed for your husband? Consider it thoughtfulness for and of family in general. It may take a few years, but after each gesture? You merely turn and look at your husband and say, "honey, I wish you would be more thoughtful when it comes to these occasions and it's your family in particular...please remember this next year - I'll remind you ahead!" You seem to be looking to take this issue and make it more than it is right now, presumably because you are pregnant and your hormones are dictating your thoughts and feelings.

You have a tough road ahead of you - by your own choice(s) it would appear, so it's time to be strong and keep moving, afterall, it's no longer about you - but your daughter and a child to come, Hm?

Grace

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It could have been:

- an affair

- having been separated by a long distance for lengths of time

- conflict

- behavioral issues or psychological problems of one spouse

- even unmanaged addictions.

Whatever of these problems may be what is seen on the surface, the bottom line is that usually, barring any abuse or psychological problems that are best handled by a professional, a couple find themselves in danger of divorce when there is a loss of:

- communication,

- love

- and intimacy

in the marital relationship.

Relationships can be that way. I'm engaged to be married and we live together. All couples have these kinda issues. And trust issues, etc. what it boils down to I think is that if it's real and true then both parties will make it work and be together. If not you'll split eventually.

It's just another day. Enjoy it however you can within your financial constraints. If you're tired of planning events then stop. You really want to base your 7 year marriage off of what your spouse DOESN'T do one day a year. Please calm down and next time around use two forms of birth control.

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