What to send somebody who just lost a grandchild?

Your friend is probably inconsolable and in shock. Send the flowers or gift basket and a card but call too. I think a potted tree is best.. like a memorial tree. Tell her if she needs to talk your there. The reason for the accident may be a big issue for the family..such as was he drinking. There is alot of pain they will suffer and all you can do is offer your shoulder.

Usually, everyone is 'there for you'.. till after the funeral and every one goes on with their own life. Its very sad, plus people have a hard time trying to help someone with such a great loss. The first few years is very very horrible because the loved one is not there for the birthdays and the holidays and family celebrations. The real friends will remember to call you and comfort you in those days and that will mean a great deal. That is where those Thinking of You cards come in handy. What you do will determine how close you are to her. Good luck

Just a wonderfully written letter would be best in my opinion. And maybe some phone calls. If you want to send her something she can put her hands on, maybe a special book. Maybe if you want to send something right now, give a donation to her church in his memory. If I were in her place those are things I would cherish.

There is nothing I would want more than the love and friendship from anyone. Maybe later the family would want to start a foundation to honor his memory and you could help with that.

Good luck, thanks for caring so much and God bless you and all of his family.

I am sorry to hear about the loss! you can maybe buy a sympathy card and write a sweet note inside of it. hope everything goes better and hope this helps as well!

Flowers, chocolate, and a card

some flowers and a card showing her your deepest condolences

i got a card that said"the bastard deserved it"