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He knows I'm on vacation. We work on a team where he could get help from any of our other teammates.

She's 13. She sent a vile text message to a girl whose mother saw it and told us about it. It was so mean and disgusting I was shocked. We took our daughter's phone away. She says she's sorry but I think she's just sorry she got caught. I'm so disappointed in her I don't even want to be in the same room with her. I don't want to damage our relationship but I don't know how to move past this. It's been a week since it happened and I feel stuck in this funk. I know how girls are at this age but now I feel like I don't even know my daughter, who I thought was kind. How do I move past this?

The problem is that we live one town away from each other so avoiding him altogether is impossible because of family get togethers. Short of disowning my entire family, who I love, how do I move forward?

I work at an I.T. company selling licensing. There are a million things to know and a million ways to make a mistake. I ve been there 9 months and have already been called in to my manager s office 3 times for making mistakes. I feel like one person in particular"s sole purpose for being there is to watch for my mistakes and call me out on them. As a result I have no confidence in my abilities and there is such a level of distrust for my co workers. I thought my confidence would grow over time but it is diminishing and I feel like a laughingstock on my team. Should I perservere in hopes that things will improve or just cut my losses and look for another job?

I recently went back to work full time after taking 15 years off to raise my kids. It s the same place I worked at before I had kids. Anyway, the job is totally different now and this girl who is 15 years younger than me was put in charge of training me. She started 8 months before me. So, obviously when you re new you will make mistakes. Well, she chomps at the bit to call me out on it. The only time she communicates with me is to point out a mistake I made. We ve socialized outside of work a few times at work events, I even gave her a thank you card and gift card for training me, but nothing changes. She is very cliquey with her friends. She s a total know it all. She s moody, and she s also a total suck up to our manager. Truthfully I don t care about being friends with her, but I m getting so irritated with her corrections. I purposely try to be flawless so I don t have to hear from her. I don t know why she s like that but I feel like it s creating a toxic environment.

He sits right next to me in a cubicle so I can t avoid him. We both had to work on the same spreadsheet and I finished my part. He has complained nonstop about his share of the work for days, complained to our boss, then sat at his desk and complained some more. It is driving me bat crazy. How do I tell him to knock it off without sounding nasty?