Summer

Doesn’t hurt when I breathe really but is sore when I cough , or move a certain way ? Not sick don’t have any other issues relating to this ....

I’m the Payee for somebody on SSI

wondering if anyone else on ssi has received their stimulus pay? & if so did it go into your card that your benefit goes on every month? 

( they haven’t received theirs ) 

Rumors that Social security recipients get it on the 15th but not sure if these rumors are true . 

I see some people have gotten pending deposits , haven’t received one yet 

I had a miscarriage & d and c surgery on 4-4-20 , I was told to wait two weeks for sex and to take baths (when I was discharged after having the surgery) . It’s been a week and two days I had an appointment four days after the surgery and was told my cervix was closed & everything seemed fine . I haven’t been bleeding or anything anymore just a few cramps here and there , 

should it be alright to have intercourse now ? Has anyone ever experienced this before and had sex before the 2 week marker.  ?I read online the reason they say two weeks is so the cervix has time to close , but if it’s already closed then there should be no problems right ?

Me and my fiancé have been trying to conceive for two years , on 4/4/20 I found out I was pregnant , later that night I rushed to the hospital and had a miscarriage the same exact day ... I was nine weeks pregnant and I ended up having to stay and have a d&c the next morning . It’s been a few days and Now I’m constantly feeling like it’s going to happen again and I’m genuinely scared for when we do start trying again . Has anyone dealt with this before ? And or had these feelings and fears ? Was it easy having a successful pregnancy after a d&c surgery ? 

I just moved in on September 20th I paid 1400.00$ which was the rent , now the landlord is coming tomorrow for another 1400.00$ ? I haven’t even received a lease yet.  I’ve been asking him since I moved in for one . 

My heat doesn’t even work tried to turn it on this morning because it’s freezing and it doesn’t work.

I moved on in September 20th I paid 1400$ which is the rent , now the landlord is coming tomorrow to collect another 1400$? 

I feel like I need to cut my mother out of my life for at least a few months ... we have never gotten along she didn’t raise me my grandparents and father did , she is super manipulative and mentally abusive . I moved out of her house once I turned 18 Because I was miserable I’m now 21 and now I don’t even live with her and she makes me a miserable wreck everyday ?

I don’t even know if cutting her out of my life for the time being will help ? I know as soon as I let it be known if I choose to distance myself she’s going to threaten me and or try to make me feel bad .

I’ve asked her to go to counciling with me , etc and she has always refused . I just don’t know what to do at this point

I asked a previous question but there was not enough detail I’m 21 as of now . Growing up I lived with my father until he passed @ the age of nine I moved in with my grandparents , ( they tried making it permanent but weren’t able to ) so I ended up moving in with my mom around age of 15 or so .

I have NO good memories in general all my childhood memories are the traumatic ones for some reason especially the ones with my mother ! All I remember is her leaving after visiting me for a little bit once in a while , I don’t even remember the parts of her actually coming to visit I just remember the parts of watching her leave and crying ( especially when I was with my father which I loved very much! But he was always high on pain pills etc)

When I finally lived with my mother we had arguments almost every day, she never asked me how my day was , or asked me how I was feeling ,never ever supported anything I would do I have only hugged my mother maybe twice my entire life !

has ALWAYS favorited my youngest brother ( me and him have a very good relationship I do not resent him for her decisions ) he is 15.

He can NEVER do anything wrong (even when things genuinely are his doing ) nothing is ever wrong or his fault

She let him sleep in her bed whenever he wanted still does ! He can talk to her about anything She has a nickname for him

I just want to know will I always feel this way towards her ? Will it always be like this ? Am I always gonna resent her for my childhood?

Me and my mother have never been close , I lived with my dad till he died when I was 9, I moved in with my grandparents and lived with them on and off the rest of my childhood going between their house and hers .

I don’t have any good childhood memories with her , most of the childhood memories I do have in general are traumatic ones , (my father being high , my mother constantly leaving me behind not knowing when I was gonna see her again because I was young and didn’t know)

We always clashed , she has literally only hugged me once in my life , she is someone I constantly feared telling anything growing up once I was living with her (teen years )

To this day I still don’t tell her things just random things out of fear of disapproval or anything she will say or her comments she will make .

We have no relationship really at all , we talk but I do not feel anything , like I don’t feel any mother daughter bond , I resent her for a lot of things especially for the relationship she has with my youngest sibling because they have the relationship I wish we had .

I just wanna know

If this is gonna be this way my entire life ? Am I always going to feel this way and what would you do in my situation ?

Ever since I moved into my new apartment I’ve been obsessed with keeping it clean and organized , I clean everyday I at least wipe down the bathroom and kitchen really good and mop the floors and make sure there’s no dishes in the sink .

I know this sounds silly but is everyone like this ?

Lol or is this just a phase I’m in since it’s a new place and kind of my own , where I just need everything perfect ? 😂

I am a 21 year old who lives in New York .

I have not lived with my mother for over two years , my recent living situation i was living with my fiancé and his family babysitting his nephew every day besides the days his parents had off , and cleaned the house on a daily basis so I didn’t have to pay rent .

Just as of two days ago I moved in with an elderly lady into a room where I share the kitchen and bathroom , I can live here rent free on the following bases

- I pay my own internet

-I pay half of utilities (central hudson)

-I provide my own food

-I cook meals and clean household .

-and help the elderly lady with small talks she needs help with

This deal sounded great to me , as I have a low income right now and this will help me build up some funds to eventually live on my own .

Now me and my mother have NEVER really gotten along well she has controlled my life the entire 18 years I lived with her and she still tries to and succeeds in certain ways to this day . She has found out about the living situation and is insistent that I am going to go to jail for it because I am not paying half of everything ?

I have gotten multiple opinions and hers is the only negative opinion , and with the type of person she is I know she would be the one to try and start problems because she does it to everyone in our family .

So I’m unsure if I should go about getting a lawyer ? Or if I should just ignore her negativity and continue on with my arrangement ?