TabithaCate

So I went for company drinks on Friday evening. My CEO was buying a fair few drinks everyone else went home we stayed at the pub carried on drinking then went clubing.

I remember losing my boss in the club and talking to a guy I then do not remember anything else I just remember being in A&E with a badly broken wrist even then I thought I was in another hospital. How could my memory just be wiped like that? I was on my own in the hospital so this is also worrying.

Is there a posibilty my drink could have been spiked?

I am currently on Job seekers doing unpaid work experience for 8 weeks. This is my seventh week then they said I will go paid.

I loved it at first and found them to be really friendly. But when my manager came back from vacation it changed my boss toke us all for drinks and propisitioned me for sex. I declined and did not file a complaint as I want the job.

I flirted with a guy from our other at our Christmas do they are now accusing me of sleeping with him because he paid for my cab home. My manager and my other collegue this is who is a family friend of hers are constantly saying this and teasing me. Their also saying Id sleep with my boss and love the attention etc.

They teased me about this for half an hour today i put up with it despite nearly being in tears.

Is this bullying what should I do? I want paid work so bad...

Last night I met my friend and we went round her friends who is a guy that I had met for the first time. He is an alcoholic. He was rude & aggresive to me when he first saw me. He started being nice to me and then switching on me. He then began calling me a fat slag and saying I was ugly. I ignored this as I did not want to aggrivate him as he was very drunk. He threw his dog across the room chucked my coat. He then at 4am picked me up off the ground screamed get the **** out and dragged me byvthe arm & slapped me across the face slightly. He also said he was gonna wrap me up in the rug. I got out te house & called the police! Is this a crime? I am slightly unsure of whether to press charges as I am not sure if he commited an offence. What would happen if I pressed charges?

Last night I met my friend and we went round her friends who is a guy that I had met for the first time. He is an alcoholic. He was rude & aggresive to me when he first saw me. He started being nice to me and then switching on me. He then began calling me a fat slag and saying I was ugly. I ignored this as I did not want to aggrivate him as he was very drunk. He threw his dog across the room chucked my coat. He then at 4am picked me up off the ground screamed get the **** out and dragged me byvthe arm & slapped me across the face slightly. He also said he was gonna wrap me up in the rug. I got out te house & called the police! Is this a crime? I am slightly unsure of whether to press charges as I am not sure if he commited an offence. What would happen if I pressed charges?

Ok so I have been having a lot of dental work done recently after years of neglecting my teeth. I have suffered in the past with unbearable tooth pain the problem teeth were extracted but my remaining teeth have been filled and I have had a root canal, with another root canal due tomorrow.

I had the procedure done last week and the dentist warned me that it could be sensitive well it was fine for two days no problems at all. But two days later when I went outside the cold air caused me to have a toothache in that tooth for 20seconds. It is nothing unbearably painful just midly uncomfortable, and I don't particulary need to take painkillers. It also happens when I drink cold or hot drinks. But mostly when I am going outside and breathing in cold air.

Is this normal? This isn't a sign that the root canal treatment hasn't worked is it?

Thanks

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I am 20 years old and I am not an alcoholic but a binge drinker. I will drink on Friday or Saturday. Sometimes Friday and Saturday and consume large amounts of alcohol with my group of friends.

I am currently out of work and have been for six months. I am finding it hard to gather a routine and have found myself becoming very bored and boring. I will normally go round a friends house at the weekend and drink a lot just due to the fact there is nothing to do and drinking provides some form of entertainment.

I want to turn my life around and stop binge drinking and only drink very little on special occasions. I want to also start eating healthy and to have a good job and hobbies and for my life not to revolve around getting drunk on the weekend. I have found my hangovers have been becoming unbearable and I will vomit the next day causing friction with my family as they have had to pick me up from friends houses when I have been ill the next day after drinking.

I am finding it hard to do this due to the group of friends I drink with which consist of my good friend, her boyfriend, her boyfriend's brother and his friend. They drink a lot and would most likely be considered alcoholics. They drink daily and will wake up and drink. They also smoke cannabis daily and on drinking sessions will have quite a bit of cocaine which I will sometimes participate in when I am drunk. Whenever I tell them I am not going to get drunk or do any drugs with them they seem to laugh and doubt me and then talk me into doing it. I then regret my actions and cringe the next day to the point where I am so paranoid about what I have said and done. In the past when I have been drinking I have acted fairly promisicious and really regreted it as it is just not who I am. My friends boyfriend is abusive verbally to my friend and it is quite uncomfortable to be around them at times, and I think I drink quite fast due to trying to put up with it. I don't do anything with them that doesn't involved drinking, so I think my best option is to cut them off. But I have no idea how, where to start and if I will be able to. My will power is not strong and I always seem to start something without seeing it through.

I would really like to have a go at giving up drinking as I am tired of drink changing the person I am, making me act promisicous and ruining my jobs. I just don't know where to start and how to cut ties with my group of friends. Any help would be really appreciated.

Hi,

I am a 20 year old, 5"0 female who currently weighs 11 and a half stone. About a stone of it is my breasts which I am planning to get reduced on the NHS. Which is why I need to lose the weight to get my BMI down so they will permit the operation.

How can I go about doing it? What to eat? How often to exercise?

Help appreicated

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Hi,

I toke 2 small doses of MDMA on Saturday with my friends. It was my first time. I didn't have a bad reaction whilst taking, when it first hit me I freaked out for about 5 minutes but then I was fine. It was a very good feeling. I drank beer and water with it. The next day I drank alcohol with friends for the entire friends and felt happy and fine. But on the Monday I felt horrible. I could not sleep I keep twitching and my eye sight was really fuzzy and blurry, everytime I got up I felt like I was going to faint. When I had some sleep I was unable to stay awake and when my family were speaking to me it was really irratating to me and going straight through my head.

Today my vision has cleared up a bit but still feels a bit fuzzy, and I have had heart palpitations and I feel really tired like I cannot do anything.

Am I coming down with the flu or is this a typical MDMA comedown? When will I feel normal again? By the way before you tell me off I understand the danger of drugs like this, and will not do it again as I don't want to feel like this for days.

Thanks

Hi,

So I normally refuse to weigh myself because it is depressing. I used to in my early teens weigh myself daily and be about 7 stone. I am about 5"0 and I have massive boobs so my boobs contribute to a stone of my weight.

I am currently a UK size 12-14. Back size 36. I've got a big belly and a bit of love handles but apart from that I do not look fat or overweight, just a bit chubby. I have just weighed myself and I have gone from 10 and a half stone to 12. I am shocked, because physically I haven't put loads of weight on just got a fatter belly and a bit more wobbly. I now actually feel morbidly obese after seeing the scales and after I have come back from Holiday want to start getting my life together and dieting.

At the moment I'm out of work so I am eating quite a lot and very unfit and doing little exercise.

I want to be a healthy weight for my height so about 8 stone, how can I do this, how long will it take? Food to eat? How can I get the will power.

I feel if I am to carry on eating like this I will become obese, and I want a nicer figure deffo affecting my confidence.

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So I have known this guy a few years. We slept together whilst drunk, I fancied him then but the next day I felt so awkard and uncomfortable I just wanted to go home.

We have met up whilst I have been drunk on several occasions, he has asked me on dates asked to date me and at the time I am all for it but the next day I just want to ignore him.

His a very nice guy Intelligent, finically secure. He is five years older than me though. I am 20. He lives close by only a ten minute walk. He is looking for a relationship and respects me.

But I don't know if I fancy him! He is a good looking guy but I don't feel like I really want to tear his clothes off or anything.

We met the other day whilst sober and had a nice evening with other's and I did begin to like him more as his personality was great and we really did get on. But the next day I feel so uncertain.

I don't know if I am being shallow & vain or if I'm just not ready to date.

Someone helppp!

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Hi,

Right so I am not fat. But I am a little overweight for my height. I am petite built. I am pretty small apart from I have a bit of a belly going on, and my arms aren't as slim as I'd like them to be. Apart from that I am pretty small.

I would really like a nice body that looks good in bikinis, and so I can wear tight clothes. That is all I ask. But I find it so hard to diet. I snack alot. I love cheese and pasta. How can I stick to a diet and exercise regime? I have never been able to. I'm currently unemployed so I need affordable options.

Gym bunnies help me please!

Tabitha

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Hi,

Well basically, I just never feel comfortable with the idea of going on a date with someone. I have had boyfriends in the past, but we never really went on dates to first get to know each other, we just hanged around in mutal friendship groups. The idea of a date makes me really nervous, and feel sick! I get really shy when I'm just with one other person I don't know very well. Unless I drink its very awkard! I also get worried that I won't live up to their expectations appearance wise, and I am scared of being used. Everytime someone has asked to go on a date with me, I have made up an excuse and not gone.

The last date I went on was last month and it was HORRIBLE. The guy told me he was looking for commitment and someone fun, and talkative. He was a muslim, but not strict. He toke me to a hotel in London and went out clubbing, he toke his cousin along and I got lost a few times in the big club and he spent the whole night chatting up other girls. It also got me in a horrible situation, with police being called that I won't go into. It turned out he was just looking for a one night stand, and in love with another girl (fml) The idea to ever date again makes me feel really sick! I really do want a companion, and someone I can have a laugh with but I can't do the whole dating thing!

This guy I met in a club when I was very drunk who I have on facebook, has asked me to go on a date next week for a meal, and then to a bar. Then up to me to stay in a hotel afterwards which I really do not want to do. I find him relatively attractive, but I can't help feeling his intentions aren't good, and again he is looking for a one night stand. But I can't say no to people I feel really bad!

How can I be confident, and learn to go on dates and meet the right person? Advice would be really appreciated.

Hi,

Well basically, I just never feel comfortable with the idea of going on a date with someone. I have had boyfriends in the past, but we never really went on dates to first get to know each other, we just hanged around in mutal friendship groups. The idea of a date makes me really nervous, and feel sick! I get really shy when I'm just with one other person I don't know very well. Unless I drink its very awkard! I also get worried that I won't live up to their expectations appearance wise, and I am scared of being used. Everytime someone has asked to go on a date with me, I have made up an excuse and not gone.

The last date I went on was last month and it was HORRIBLE. The guy told me he was looking for commitment and someone fun, and talkative. He was a muslim, but not strict. He toke me to a hotel in London and went out clubbing, he toke his cousin along and I got lost a few times in the big club and he spent the whole night chatting up other girls. It also got me in a horrible situation, with police being called that I won't go into. It turned out he was just looking for a one night stand, and in love with another girl (fml) The idea to ever date again makes me feel really sick! I really do want a companion, and someone I can have a laugh with but I can't do the whole dating thing!

This guy I met in a club when I was very drunk who I have on facebook, has asked me to go on a date next week for a meal, and then to a bar. Then up to me to stay in a hotel afterwards which I really do not want to do. I find him relatively attractive, but I can't help feeling his intentions aren't good, and again he is looking for a one night stand. But I can't say no to people I feel really bad!

How can I be confident, and learn to go on dates and meet the right person? Advice would be really appreciated.

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I am a twenty year old female, I live in the UK at the moment. I am unemployed, left my job in February. There is high unemployment in this country, and barely any jobs! I currently am claiming job seekers which isn't very much.

I feel like there's not much for me here at the moment in England, and really want to experience the world and a different country. I have always wanted to visit Italy. So I really want to au-pair in Italy or maybe Greece or Cyprus.

How can I go about doing this, I've got a few online profiles. What should I expect? My Dad told me its not worth being an au-pair as they treat you as a slave and pay you very little. But as I like kids, and want to experience a different culture I think it would be good.

Has anyone had any experience as an au-pair, how can you make friends etc...

Thanks

Tabitha

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Ok so I was doing some research on NDES and read quite a few NDE stories. I noticed

the themes were quite similar and involved a light, tunnels, deceased relatives and floating out of your body. I believe these to be real. I was wondering if you believe them to be real

or a hallucination? Also share any experiences you have!

Tabitha

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Hi,

Did a post similar to this a few days ago got a bit told off for posting it into the genealogy section, and not putting enough pictures. So I will put one of me with no make-up, and one with make-up.

Tell me where you think I come from, origin/background. I am curious to know.

No Make-up

http://i40.tinypic.com/2mo9v6o.jpg

With eye-make up

http://i43.tinypic.com/2wlvrzl.jpg

Tabitha

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Posted in the wrong catergory how embarrasing!

Ok so I seem to have quite a few planets in my fifth house. But I am not sure what that means, I myself would love to be lucky enough to have children and raise them. Do my planets indicate this, or will they restrict me?

If you can tell anything else please let me know

Tabitha

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Ok so I seem to have quite a few planets in my fifth house. But I am not sure what that means, I myself would love to be lucky enough to have children and raise them. Do my planets indicate this, or will they restrict me?

If you can tell anything else please let me know

Tabitha

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Had unprotected sex on the 1st October whilst I was ovulating.

4 days ago began to spot lightly, didnt leak blood but could see pinky red light blood stuff on the tissue when I wiped, but blood didnt come out.

Same for rest of the day, but once or twice a little bit of watery red blood came out and dripped a little bit. So i am not leaking blood like on a period but sometimes you can notice blood, but lightly spotting.

This is accompined by a dull backache, tiredness mood swings and faintness, and food aversions.

Implantation or period?

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Hi there,

I have been suffering from a mystery illness since Sunday morning. The cause I do believe is due to payday I went out clubbing two nights in a row, and consumed and mixed alot of alcohol on both occasions, and also snorted a fair bit of cocaine on the Saturday evening. (I know its stupid I sometime use it recreationally but I understand thats where the problems start so I am stopping all use of cocaine.)

The next day I felt unable to sleep, sick to my stomach I could not consume any food but was not vomiting it was purely nausea. I was weak and couldnt walk about and also had dirrohea. I thought it was a hangover, but I felt the same the next day also not being able to eat meals, only liquid and soft foods.

Today I feel the same, and have been suffering from lack of sleep, I feel weak have a dry cough, I feel sick and have no appetite a headache and pains in my side and kidney.

Any idea what this could be?

Thanks

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