gracel

the employer has put a range of salary to be offered e.g. 200-400USD. But now they require me to state my current and expected salary. what should state?

the employer has put a range of salary to be offered e.g. 200-400USD. But now they require me to state my current and expected salary. what should i say?

my son is 1yr five months. whenever we go on an outing, he's so troublesome like wants to be everywhere he's not allowed, screams and throws tantrums all over. but when we're in the house, he's just playful, nice and calm. should i discipline him esp when he cries for something he want and must have even if it belongs to some other kid? are these early signd of a really naughty boy? how do i make him behave orderly like other kids his age?

at what age range do you start training your baby to use the potty?

how do you cope with singlemotherhood after the guy dumps you when your baby is less that a year and below 10 years? how do you get your strenght, esp given the fact that the dad does not support or want anything to do with his child? how do you cope seeing your child grow without a father-figure in his/her life? the pitying of your baby...all so hard.

i use a nokia 5230 smartphone and have downloaded skype. i can easily contact my friends by calling on skype but they tell me to turn on my video / camera so we can see each other but i don't know how to do this. please help.

i use a nokia 5230 smartphone and have downloaded skype. i can easily contact my friends by calling on skype but they tell me to turn on my video / camera so we can see each other but i don't know how to do this. please help.

for example, my backspace key is not working at all. similarly, i could be typing double 2 but it wil only type one 2. help me fix my keyboard please. e.g above, i tried to type al but you see its refused to type double l.

i met this guy online and we've been calling each other once in a while. whenever we talk, i feel so excited after the conversations, i feel much love and feelings. however, when we are talking, he sounds so calm, nice and tells me that he has feelings for me. so i was just wondering if this person feels the same exciting feeling that i feel. i also feel like i need to just be with him and he also tells me so even though i have not disclosed my feelings for him. could he be feeling the same way i'm feeling? (this guy is a celebrity on the rise so his life is somewhat private. also, i had his phone number checked to verify the details. its who he says he is.

i met this guy on facebook and we've been calling each other once in a while. whenever we talk, i feel so excited after the conversations, i feel much love and feelings. however, when we are talking, he sounds so calm, nice and tells me that he has feelings for me. so i was just wondering if this person feels the same exciting feeling that i feel. i also feel like i need to just be with him and he also tells me so even though i have not disclosed my feelings for him. could he be for real? (this guy is a celebrity on the rise so his life is somewhat private).

I've been living/cohabiting with him for three yrs. before i came into his life he was cohabiting with another woman for 7years. this woman got married officially while they were still living together behind his back. recently i got our first born son who is 6months now. during the months of August-december, he left me with our son who was just a new born for this same woman who ditched him, the ex. Now, here's what pissed me off. he went and told his parents and siblings all sorts of bad hings about me, which were not true, he also used to tell this woman that he stays with me for my money, that she should not ask me because he needs to support her and her legal husband's kids (2), that i have big boobs which cannot make him have an erection-and he told her that am a prostitute (knowing very well he took me out of college while i was living with my parents that i had to drop school for sometime), and so many other obsene things which i cannot write here. so it reached a point during these months i got broke and asked him for money to buy the baby's milk, and diapers. he snubbed me and told me to go ask my family for money. this time the woman was in the background and i could hear he hurling all sorts of insults, like" he left you for me, you are disturbing us, we want to have sex, that i have one kid, them they have kids...and on and on. he was telling me that that woman is his wife and i should stop nagging him. the woman started to text me of how good their sex was the previous night.

In december, i got a male friend who wanted a relationship with me, for marriage and to take care of my son. he came to learn about this guy through spies and when he did, he immediately came to my house, down on his knees, crying and begging for me to take him back. he even insisted that he makes a phone call to this woman and tell her that they are over and he has decided to get back with me. i agreed to take him back, not because i loved him, but because i wanted revenge. i wanted to hurt that woman and his family, just by the fact that his family who now hate me so much thought he'd never crawl back to my life. i wanted that woman to get embarrassed, so we made the call. she ws so infuriated and embarrased. its been one month and i've realised that the two are still in terms, to make things worse, he's been calling my new guy friend and hurling all sorts of insults on him. last sunday he beat me so badly that i had a black eye to work just because my pal called me. he started hurling insults on me upto to day for a whole week, about my body, that am a prostitute, that he can never love me, or respect me, that he can never be aroused by my mere prescence.

i forgot to mention that since he came back, he sleeps on the couch, we never talk, and if we do, its when asking where something is, we dont say hi, we dont call each other during the day, we never look at each other like ppl who were in a r/shp. Now the problem is that i pay all the bills like pay our house rent, elecricity, buy food for the house, upkeep for my baby, househelp-baby sitter, and everything. i own everything in that house, he only has his cloths. i dont earn that much, so i really strain to the extent that i cant afford to buy my own cloths, i dont eat lunch or breakfast because i'll ruin my budget. when i ask for money from him, he tells me he has not been paid, yet he comes with new cloths and shoes for himself almost everyday. so i believe he gives this woman and his parents the money he could be using on us. yesterday the woman called me up and told me that i should know better, he's lying to me and that he's using me, financially, and that they are still very much together, have sex normally and gets all his money plus my money. so i went to my ATM and found out that he's withdrawn cash from my account.

i have decided enough is enough, the insults, the arrogance, the physical assault and beatings, the lack of his help... i will kick him out but i want to do it in the most hurtful and embarrasing way to any man. what can i do to make him so embarrased, hurt, and most painful thing to never forget.

here are a few of my ideas,

1. i pack his cloths and put them outside

2. i tell my new pal to call him up and abuse his ego- stuff to do with his sex, penis, and physical description in a mocking way, and abuse him with his mother- this is risky as he'll beat me up when he comes back home

3. to tell my big brother to call him up and threaten to take him to the police if he does not leave me alone

4. to tear all his cloths while he's at work and move out before he comes to massacre me.

5. to move out quietly while he's off to work and make him wonder where i went to, i change my contacts so he never finds out.

All these ideas seem too mild for such a person.guys, what really would hurt this man who is also a weed addict?

i have recently acquired a laptop that is webcam enabled. i live in africa and i'd like to communicate with my sibling who lives in the USA. how do i go about it? pleae give me the complete steps to follow and precise answer.

My hubby and i have been separated for three months after he left me and our 4months old son to be with another woman. recently he came back and asked to reconcile. we called the woman up and he told her its over between them, and that he wants to be with me and our son. the woman told him to go collect his cloths from her house, in much furry. Is it advisable for him to go collect his stuff from her house? i told him to tell he to meet up at a neutral point but he said she cant do that (i wouldn't do that also). then i told him to leave them alone, but now i feel that if his stuff are still there, she might have hopes of them getting back together. when he'd left me, he collected all his cloths. so i think he needs to get them and cut links with her.

The veins on his white part of the eye are red for about three days now should i be concerned? i will be taking him to the docs later in the day, but was wondering if anyone has witnessed this in his/her infant. He has no fever, he's feeding normal, he's not fussy and neither is he crying. he appears normal and happy. But red streaks on his eye? When he gets out of sleep his eyes are usually red, but this redness should clear within a few minutes but this is not the case. Could it be lack of enough sleep? too much blood? an infection or allergy? I breastfeed him, give him formula as well as rice cereal. Nowadays he does not sleep much, maybe 2hours during the day and sleeps all night through from 8.pm to 7.am.

My son is 51/2 months old. i was wondering from his age, when is the best time / age to get him circumcised (am thinking when he gets to 6months because he'll have to be put under amnesia). I also want to know the age i should take him to the doc to get his uvula ( the little piece of skin hanging down the throat, that touches the tongue as you get older) cut. mine was cut when i was 16yrs old cuz i was having trouble with tonsils, i could swallow all the time and breathing was uncomfortable. when i was cut it was so painful and took time to heal.

My son is 51/2 months old. i was wondering from his age, when is the best time / age to get him circumcised (am thinking when he gets to 6months because he'll have to be put under amnesia). I also want to know the age i should take him to the doc to get his uvula ( the little piece of skin hanging down the throat, that touches the tongue as you get older) cut. mine was cut when i was 16yrs old cuz i was having trouble with tonsils, i could swallow all the time and breathing was uncomfortable. when i was cut it was so painful and took time to heal.

since he was 41/2 months old. i haven't introduced any other solid yet. he eats two meals, formula and i breastfeed at night (as am at work during the day). should i introduce other solids just to balance nutrition or should i stick to rice cereal till he's 6mons? if i am to introduce other foods, what foods are these or fruits? what foods can you give before he's 1yr old? 1st time mom.

He was born on the 24th of july, saturday. If i want to calculate his age by months, will it be every 24th of the month or do i calculate by every 4 weeks he's a month older?

No rude answers please, some of us are first time young mothers

I like

;Things a go crucial

Do you remember, black tuesday

i like richie spice- almost all songs

gideon boots, brown skin, a no me dat, the world is a cycle, yap yap, ghetto girl, youths dem cold, earth a run red..

i like beenie man too esp the song with Natasja-better than dem.

what do you like?

i give him breast milk and the formula he's always been drinking since he was 2months. what could be the problem. its not so serious, he'll just poop light like three times in a day or four. should i be concerned and take him to hospital? he does not cry but his appetite has gone down these couple of days.