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This is would take too long to tell the whole story but here's some of it. I left my husband for a week a couple of months ago and came back. I came back because I felt like it was the only choice I had so I could help him pay all of our bills. He knows why I came back. I feel like i'm not in love with him anymore but it goes deeper than that and the story is too long for me to tell. Over the last year and a half he went through a period that he was just really hateful with everyone especailly the kids, and we talked about all this about six months ago and it didn't change. I really pushed him away during all this. Now he isn't as hateful but my feelings still aren't there. I also have never gotten along with his sons. We've been together for 10 yrs. Looking back now I feel like I've always been taken advantage of cause noone ever helped me with the house or couldn't even pick up a peice of trash to help. Everyone just left it for me to do on my days off of work. Just don't know what to do. How about you? Would you stay feel like you don't love him anymore or would you stick with it so that you don't hurt anyone else? Oh yeah I'm also going to start going somewhere else for the day when my stepsons come over cause I'm just sick of dealing with it. What's your thoughts?

Do you do a smell test before you sleep with a different woman? I heard some men talking about this and was just wondering how many do that.

I'm thinking of leaving an 8 yr. marriage. Not for anyone else or anything. I just want to be by myself to raise my kids, rather than live the rest of my life listening to someone tell the kids to set down or shut up all the time. Also me and my stepsons dont get along either. I feel like they have never liked me and have always done what they could to disrespect me. I think it would be better to get the kids away from this. I've spent most of my life with hateful men and tired of it. I don't want to raise anyone elses kids anymore and don't want anyone else raising mine. I feel like I'm being mean and selfish, but I just can't take anymore. I've told him I can't take every one being hateful to anyone else anymore, but things seem to be going right back with him. I'm just ready for some peace in my life. I'm just having such a hard time deciding what to do cause I know it's going to crush him. He loves me so much, but I feel like there is a huge gap between us now.

My husband has started being hateful with everybody in the past 4 or 5 months. The kids cant say or do anything unless he yells at them to set down or shut up. He cusses and yells at other drivers. He tells me all the time about telling people off at his work. He gets mad at me about the schedule I have to work. I no longer look forward to spending time with him and have been thinking about leaving. I know that every relationship has problems, but I won't live a life of bickering and arguing all the time as I have been down that road most of my life and don't see how anyone wants to live like that. During the last few months I have started resenting the fact that he only started helping around the house and it's only to wash a few clothes or load the dishwasher. He also cooks for him and the kids. I appreciate what little he does do but everything else is left for me to do on my 2 days off. I'm thinking of leaving if his attitude doesn't change. Am I just overreacting? And is it normal to sometimes feel like something is missing in a long marriage? We've been married 8 yrs.

We have a Intertherm electric furnace in our mobile home. The a/c works but the heat won't come on. Does anyone have any suggestions?

I know you can use denim and flannel but does the quilting fabric work also? Will it fray right?

My daughter just got one for Christmas. Do you have to go through Itunes for music and stuff, or can you go through any music service(mp3 rocket for example)?

I'm planning on going back to school next year and can't decide what career I want to go back for. Pharmacy Tech or Real estate agent? Just wondering what y'all think.

My husband is fixing the timing chain on my van, and he is definately going to change the transmission filter before we crank it up cause it's been setting for a couple of years, but should he change the torque converter on the transmission too?

I'm going to sew a hanging organizer w/pockets for my daughter. The pattern calls for heavy weight fusible stabilizer. I'm new to sewing and don't really know what I'm looking for. Any suggestions on brands or anything? And also is this something I can buy like at Wal-Mart or am I going to have to go to a quilting or sewing store? Thanks.

I ask a simple question just wondering what others opinions are of a website(not advertising or anything) and it gets removed, yet I see questions on here everyday that are asking vulger questions about sex and stuff and they get to stay on. Don't make good sense to me. Oh well.

I'd like to start some low impact excersizes. I'm not really worried about losing lots of weight cause I only weigh 134, but just something to tone and shape. I don't want a program that I have to spend hours everyday doing. Which is better?

I've tried with the patches once but wasn't successful. Since then though I've started taking Pozac for anxiety and a nerve pill just when my anxiety is really high. Should I try the patches again or an alternative? Did you or anyone you know stop smoking with any of these programs?

My ex husband and I have joint custody of out 13 yr. old daughter. She's now deciding that she doesn't want to go for his full visitations, which are 5 days every other week. Can he sue me for contempt of court if I break visitation in the divorce papers and don't make her go? I live in Tennessee by the way. A lawyer told me 12 yrs. ago this could happen, but she's now 13.

This is probably a stupid question, but if I buy Panda Antivirus software on Ebay, I'll still have to pay $39.95 for 1yr. subscription and updates right?

We went to Wal Mart to get the rest of our lay away out today cause it was the last day. The cashier said they had already lost thousands of dollars just today. I think they will continue to lose money, rather than more credit cards being used. What do you think? Well I guess K Mart is happy about it though.

I was just wondering if it's a good idea or if there's a lot of trouble with things being out of stock when someone buy the item, or if returns are a big hassle. I was thinking about trying dropship items on Ebay at the first of the year. Any comments?

I have a GE clothes dryer model#DCLR333ET0WW. We changed the drum bearings in it Friday and I used it to dry 3-4 loads of clothes with no problem at all. I put a load of clothes in it today and it's making a clunking noise now. I took the clothes out and it makes that sound without anything in the drum. Does anyone know what this might be?

I have a GE washing machine. Model #WBXR1060T8WW. It sounds like a train when it goes into the spin cycle. I asked a question earlier about the damping straps breaking and forgot to mention this. Could this be the bearings gone bad? And if so you have to replace the whole motor on these, right?

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