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3 months ago I've met a guy who I've become friends with benefits during the first week I knew him. It was ok for me, since I was single and didn't really mind a casual relationship. After a week of just hanging out in his room, we started going out.. we eat outside, watch movies, shop together, or I picked clothes for him, go on trips, we even went abroad together. We talk on the phone everyday, and we spend a lot of time together. I started falling in love with him.. I like him a lot..but he told me I'll be a really good friend, that he likes me and cares for me, but he doesn't want anything out of this relationship. He's not ready for a anything serious and that he has a lot of priorities in life, goals to achieve. Although, he made it clear to me from the start that he doesnt want anything.. but he leads me on. I do so much things for him, I act like a girlfriend.. and he clearly knows that I like him a lot since I tell him every time. I know it's stupid, but I cannot let him go.. or end everything because every time he calls.. I'll go running towards him.

I met a military man on a dating site. We talked on the phone and he was nice and really interesting. After a few days I agreed to meet him. He was nice and a gentleman, I had sex with him on the first night.The second night we did it, he told me he doesn t want a serious relationship. So, I said it s okay, we can just be friends. I m growing fond of him and I always cuddle with him and teases him and tells him that I like him, but I m not in love with him. It s been a month and we are now so comfortable with each other where we throw mean jokes and say whatever we want. He calls me every night, and he spends his weekends with me. We've been hanging out and going for dinner and places, and he introduced me to his friends. However, when I told him that I like him. He said he doesn't like me and doesn't want me. However, I'm confused because he spends time with me and nice to me. Should I cut him off my life? I enjoy his company. I'm afraid I might really fall for him and be deeply hurt later.

I've been so depress this past few months. I hate being poor, and my parents also being poor and uneducated. I always have a hard time and feel utterly small when friends asks about my background and my parents job. I went to a private school through scholarship and met a lot of rick kids. I'm now in college, and mostly away from my rich friends. However, I have this complex of being poor and also I'm so sad for not accomplishing much as I am now 21 and yet nothing good has come to fruition .

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Whenever I'm extremely mad, I flip and start cussing them non stop for about a minute. I always get talked over, or slapped sometimes. You see, we have good relationship, too close probably. My dad swears a lot, he swears everytime he opens his mouth. Then I just got into the habit of cursing him when I'm extremely mad at him. I'm 20 btw. I feel so ashamed afterwards. What should I do? His not a bad father, but he always curses at my mom and call her names, he is always jelouse, he always acuse her of baseless things. We are really close, too close, we are like friends, but when I get mad, I swear like there's no tomorrow. It's also the same with my older brother. I don't like being teased, whenever I'm annoyed or mad I curse at him. Something I would tell them to die to, which I don't mean, just you know swearing. I don't know, outside, I act so classy and pretentiously kind to my coworkers and strangers. Maybe I should distance myself from them? Or maybe I should talk less at home?

So, I'm taking a quarter off from college. I've been so lazy that its not good to go next quarter. i'll be wasting money, since I rarely attend classes anyway.

I plan on just reading a lot of classics and learning new things by myself.

I don't want to use internet or a cellphone because its the #1 reason i'm so lazy.

I don't want to talk to ANY friends, I don't know how they will take this?

I'm going to move to a new place and not tell anyone, until spring quarter.

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i feel so depressed;.

I've been so miserable lately, so depressed that I can't do anything productive and I've been skipping classes like 4 times a week, or a full week of school. I go to a community college and I'm almost done with my AA, I just need next quarter and I'm done.

However, I feel like I cannot go on like this. I am taking a quarter off. During those 3 months I plan to shut myself away from everything, friends, facebook, internet, and work. I wanna stay at home (parent's home) and read

I was an A student. I was even afraid to skip classes before, but right now, I just don't care.

I want to quit my barely above minimum wage. I work as a back up MOD and a front end supervisor at a retail store for a year, and i'm so sick. But I cannot quit because I have $4,000 in credit card debt.

I'm so miserable, I feel like I could come up with paying half or more of my debt if I sell or my designer stuff I have.

I'm also soo depressed about my weight. i'm 180 lbs and 5'8. i wear a size 14, and 3 years ago, I wear a size 10 and I was feeling so much better.

What should I do? What are the things I can do with my 3 month break from civilization? I feel bad for my friends, how can i tell them that i dont want to talk to them for 3 months??? I really need to get away..

I've been so miserable lately, so depressed that I can't do anything productive and I've been skipping classes like 4 times a week, or a full week of school. I go to a community college and I'm almost done with my AA, I just need next quarter and I'm done.

However, I feel like I cannot go on like this. I am taking a quarter off. During those 3 months I plan to shut myself away from everything, friends, facebook, internet, and work. I wanna stay at home (parent's home) and read

I was an A student. I was even afraid to skip classes before, but right now, I just don't care.

I want to quit my barely above minimum wage. I work as a back up MOD and a front end supervisor at a retail store for a year, and i'm so sick. But I cannot quit because I have $4,000 in credit card debt.

I'm so miserable, I feel like I could come up with paying half or more of my debt if I sell or my designer stuff I have.

I'm also soo depressed about my weight. i'm 180 lbs and 5'8. i wear a size 14, and 3 years ago, I wear a size 10 and I was feeling so much better.

What should I do? What are the things I can do with my 3 month break from civilization? I feel bad for my friends, how can i tell them that i dont want to talk to them for 3 months??? I really need to get away..

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Im going to LA for 3 days alone. How can I enjoy while being alone? Its my first time ever going alone. I'm 20. Ive never been to LA before.

I'm going to LA for 3 days. Its my first time ever going alone. I'm kinda scared, but I'm most worried about just being bored. I'm 20 btw.

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Ok. So, I'm dying here from depression because I'm fat! I'm currently 185 and I want to be 160 lbs in a month. I have to go back to my hometown, I know everyone. I was 150lbs when I left, but after 2 years I've went to 190. So far, in 2 weeks of dieting I've only lost 5 lbs. I'm 5'8. Please help me. I don't care if it means going to the unhealthy route. Btw, I'm having such a hard time controlling my food. But I'd rather die than for then to see me like this.

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I'm 19. I don't have a lot of friends, I don't really go out and have fun. I've been gaining weight. I'm in college, I've been procrastinating, I've been skipping classes, I have a pile of writings to do (most depressing). I want to have more fun, part and all that, lose weight, dress nicely, go on vacations, have my own business, and not procrastinate. But it's too hard. I start, and soon after, give up or forget what I just started.

Hello! I'm so depressed because I procrastinate a lot. I skipped today because I had a mountain of college homework. I skipped my pol Sci two days in a row, 2 times a week ( but I perfected last week's midterm). Anyway, I was only able to finish one essay for the whole day, which could have been accomplished by one hour. In between my essay, I was distracted to keep taking a break, and watching 3 movies on Netflix. I'm so screwed! I can't stop procrastinating.

Currently I'm at my worst. I've been skipping classes 2x a week. I work part time 5x a week for 4-6 hrs. I take full time classes. I feel really bad because I'm way behind.. I procrastinate a lot too. I have a lot of writings to do with my lit class and pol sci.. And I'm barely hanging.. Today I skipped because I didn't do my homework. And I didn't finish it today because I had to work.. I'm frustrated with the pile of things to do. Advice?

Tomorrow is my first day of school.. I like dressing up, not like forever 21.. But like more grown up sophistication. I'm only 19, but I'm tall and a bit on the heavy side..dress size 12-14.. I feel so bad because I'm fat. Is it ok to dress up that much on the first day? Isn't over the top? I kinda want to recreate myself. I want to be sophisticated.. Like, mysterious, a bit distant, smiles but never burst out laughing, friendly but not too close, and most of all eloquent.

I am in college and I work for a minimum wage. I would like to start saving $100 for every paycheck. Savings account doesn't work for me because I always transfer them when I have the urge to shoppe. Right now, I am really trying to improve my life. I plan on doing some small business too. So, where can i invest them? please give me some tips.

I just got a job at a department store as a sales associate. Most of the employee wear a cheap shirt tee and black pants/ skirt. The assistant managers aren't really particular about their clothes. Its my 5th day and I've been rocking all my fashionable clothes like a boss. But aside from my clothes they can't say anything about my work because o'm good.