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My sister is getting divorced. If it turns out her husband has been cheating on her...?

We all suspect he has been cheating on her, but have no real proof. If he actually has been cheating, can she get extra money in the divorce because of that? I'm just wondering if it would be worth it to hire a private investigator to check up on him. They live in Colorado, by the way.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Nowadays, legally, in most states, it does not matter if the spouse cheated or not. There are divorces called "no-fault" divorces. That means "cheating" and other issues don't come into play.

    If they had a prenuptial agreement, and cheating was mentioned, then yes, the cheating would come into play as a reason for the desolation of the marital bond, and the prenuptial agreement would cover any extra amounts owed to the spouse that was cheated on.

    Child support and alimony are separate issues altogether, and have nothing to do with the cheating spouse / amount to be paid to the spouse that was cheated on

    They use a scale for the child support - it is the same scale for everyone (usually biased towards the mother and leaving the father a pauper).

    The alimony is sometimes approved until the wife remarries or goes to school and gets a job. It is not mean to last forever.

    Otherwise, there is no difference than any other divorce.

    Divorce is a court process to legally end a marriage. In Colorado, divorce is called "dissolution of marriage" and court papers use the term dissolution of marriage instead of divorce. Colorado uses a no-fault divorce standard that does not require that one of the spouses prove blame or responsibility in order to end the marriage. The only question for the court when a "standard" marriage is involved is whether the marriage is "irretrievably broken," meaning that there is no reasonable chance that the spouses want to keep the marriage together.

    See link below for advice from real attorneys in Colorado.

    Remember, an attorney will meet with you for free for the initial consultation / to answer questions. The link below is also free.

    Peace.

  • 4 years ago

    i think so undesirable for you and your daughters.Feeling like your international is shattered is regular, thoughts of suicide i assume would be too.although you have 3 daughters to think of of.A cheating husband is undesirable adequate, yet this has been happening for a 300 and sixty 5 days,he gets her pregnant then has nerve adequate to inform you he needs a relationship with the youngster and be together with her in the time of the finished technique ? in case you compromise for this the different relationship WILL proceed, on his visitation days you would be watching HER youngster, and in case you do no longer deliver him packing you would be working to help HER youngster. female pal, i grew to become into married to a cheating dogs, for seven years.I actual have a competent thought what you're dealing with. All i visit inform you is you ought to ask your self how lots are you going to post with?If he did it as quickly as he will do it back, he's grew to become his back on his family individuals for different woman and has instructed you undeniable as day that he intends on being there for HER. you're working, so which you at the instant are not completely helpless, your 3 ladies are sufficiently previous to help around the abode and are not toddlers. So upward thrust up, stop feeling sorry for your self and get MAD. Throw his mangy @$$ out, get a criminal expert, take the abode, the motor vehicle, in spite of else you and the females want and nail him for infant help. Then see how lots he can provide this different woman and their infant. carry in there.

  • 1 decade ago

    i live in Denver and yes she could get more if it were proved. You would need a kick A*s lawyer and some proof. but yeah it possible here. happens all the time... marriage , beside the knowing its for love, in the laws eyes is a "contract" cheating is a break in that said contract. and she would get monies due to her in the divorce. law states just cuz marriage is no more his ability to provide for kids, house financial, and her well being is still his obligation. But if she gets remarried his obligation stop and he pays no more. .

    Source(s): Divorced in CO and paying monthly child and alimony. oh and paying on a house i dont live in... not that im bitter...
  • 1 decade ago

    Divorce is no fault. Which means, that there is no extra money awarded if one spouse is cheating. Unless there are children involved, then this would be something different, called "child support".

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No she couldn't get any extra money. And honestly she shouldn't. Yes cheating is bad and wrong, but it's no reason to leave a person, man or woman, broke and with no means to support themselves.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    call "cheaters" for free investigation...you only have to pay if your wrong.

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