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For those who don't know- there is something called gender fluidity where people are go back and forth between masculinity and femininity over either a long period of time or from day to day. I tend to fall into this category as in some days I really feel like I should have been born a boy rather than a girl. These days I hate the fact that I have breasts and wish that I could undergo surgery to have a more masculine looking body. Other days I feel like I am in the correct body and all is well and good.

My question is there anyone else that has this fluidity and how do you deal with the days/times that you fell more like the opposite gender? How do you conform your body enough to match how you feel without going through the obvious extremes of surgery and hormones as it will eventually swing back to your biological gender?

I don't remember much. It was about this high school girl in a Catholic school I believe. She is followed around by a ghost who's she has fallen in love with. She talks with one of the monks/teachers/pastors at her school who can see him too, to go for it. She meets a man who can go into this Alterniate universe where she can join the ghost and live with him. Eventually, she realizes this can't work and I remember at the end of the book the ghosts gives in and they are together.

I've looked through their website and can't find it. I want to call a Deaf friend but need to go through the interpreter and I can't just find the one simple number. Thanks

I donated whole blood on the 21st of January and want to donate plasma this coming week. Is it okay to go ahead and make an appointment or should I wait the 56 days of the normal whole blood donation wait time before I do anything else?

Everyone knows that those with Type O are the universal donor and those with type AB are the universal recipents. Type O can be transfused to type AB people but why can't those with type AB be transfused to those with type O or A? If its safe to go from AB and get O why don't they do it in reverse?

Okay this is an older movie, I want to say mid 80's or so. There was a queen whose castle was made of ice and she lures a young boy to her. His friend or sister becomes concerned about him because his heart turns to ice and is black. He forgets about her in a way until she finally is able to melt his heart.

Anyone know his schedule? Or his website? I want to see if he's going to be around my area soon so I can go make fun of him.

its a book about an albino girl who lives with an abusive woman. She escapes the house after she is caught with a boy. The woman tells the girl that the boy knocked her up after this albino girl gets her period. I think the story continues where she ends up like in a side show circus and thats how she makes a living. Anyone know this book or who the author may be?

I am a female bisexual. When it comes to women I don't like someone going down there on me and I refuse to go there on any one else. But guys... its easy because there are plenty of other.. options if you choose. I'm just wondering if there is anyone else in a similar pickle?

I hate labels and trying to figure out exactly where I "fit" but this delima has recently hit me. I consider myself bisexual and when it comes to men I feel very sexually, physically, and emotional attracted to them. But when it comes to women I feel emotionally and think they are beautiful and attractive but not sexually.

I'm just curious if any one else has a similar experience or what this may be "called"?

Whenever I go to the gas station, at the front counter there are always fuel injectors for sale. What is the purpose of fuel injectors? And how do you use them properly?

I am thinking about when I get gas next time I am going to get the V-power. But as the price of gas is going up I am just wondering if its really any better for your car than the regular grade of gasoline.

My mom is a Baptist Christan, though she doesn't go to church, still holds very firm beliefs that you will go to hell if you are gay, bisexual, lesbian, transgender, etc. Though she has accepted my depression and is working on me being Pagan I'm worried this may be the thing the straw that breaks the camels back of sorts. I'm just a little worried what to do if she wants to try to "cure" me of a "disease" I don't have. And I have no idea how to even bring it up! I was going to write a note or something and slip it under her door so she would see it when she went to work in the morning. But that just seems so impersonal. But I'm such a coward that I can't just go up to her and say "Hey mom. I'm bisexual and I've known since I was in the 9th grade!"

So if you could give me some advice on how to tell her and handle any adverse reactions that may arise. Thank you very much for your help!

I really want to go somewhere when I can save the money. I don't want it to be some place where it will cost 100,000 bucks to go but some place I can get away. I have a couple places I'm thinking about but its the same old thing. San Fran, Miami, or somewhere in Florida. Anyone have any ideas for a unique place to go and still have a good time?

Yesterday I got my hair colored a dark red at the salon. I called her before and told her what I was going to do, so its not like it was out of the blue when I got home. When she saw the color her jaw about hit the floor. Now today she won't look at me or talk to me- that's seriously just how much she hates it. My friend saw it yesterday and liked it and I love the color. i'm not going back to change the color because its too expensive and I like it too much. Advice?

Anytime I have a concern and tell him about it he never seems to hear me. I never get any sort of response that he understands where I am coming from and the next time we talk he acts like nothing ever happened. I don't know what to do and I am hoping that you (guys mostly since you are the source) can give me some guidence as to why this happens.

Here is the thing. my boyfriend has recently gotten a new job which he likes and I am excited for him. But he has been putting a lot of hours lately. On Tuesday last week he called me and said he had to go to work which I didn't have a problem with. Then we were supposed to go out on Sunday and he didn't show up or call me. Finally I got a hold of him yesterday only after I went to his house left a note and talked to his mom.

But the thing is his phone was off I couldn't find him anywhere so I was freaking out. So that is why I went. Finally he called me and said he got a new phone and number and 'forgot' my number which I have trouble getting my head around. After one day I already know his number and after 5 months he can't remember mine? He was mad at me (despite saying he wasn't. I can hear it in his voice) for being concerned and worried that he was in the hospital or something.

My question is.... Was I wrong to go to his house? Does he have a reason to be annoyed/angry/frustrated? Am I just missing something here?

I really do. I hate it because I never was the best student in the world and I just can't concentrate. It seems that even when I do try, there are still those times when I just can't do it. But there is one hitch as to why I just don't do something about it. My parents. They have payed for a year of college, give me a place to live, and food to eat. How am I supposed to tell them that this isn't what I want? I don't want to waste any more money just because they want me to be there.

But I can't really make a living without something. I can't move out and survive on my own especially when I can barely make it living with my parents.

How can I be a better student so that I can survive? How can I do better so I can get through? I love my major and want to continue with it but I just hate the whole school experience.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months now. It seems that no matter how hard I try, I am always the one who has to call him. Whenever we are on yahoo's IM I always have to start the conversations as well. If nothing else I have gotten a bone and got upgraded from hot to beautiful but recently have become cute somehow.

I really don't have a question I am more asking for the advice of others on what should I do. I have told him that I like when he calls me, etc but it has done no good.

Now just a bit agao I called him and I think he cancelled my call and sent me straght to his voicemail. Now I'm only assuming this but by the fact he hasn't called back makes me anxious.