irish_lad_921

I was working 7 days a week at a Japaneese resteraunt, 6-14 hours a day there. When i was hired i was told let them know i controlled the bar and i let them know what was needed I loved it but soon begain to realize i was the only white guy there also the only person who didn't speak chineese. My boss pulled me off the the side one day and said I hired you becaue you where white people don't trust asain bartenders. I chuckled and 3 days later he pulls me off to the side says we don't have money for a bar now sorry. I went in yeasterday to collect my bar supplies and there is now an chineese girl being bartender. Can't i sue him for that?

me and my wife have been married for a while now. I have been 100% faithful she on the other hand had cheated on me twice once it was an online relationship that she was emotionally cheating on my, the other one was when we where dating she physically cheated on me and i forgave her both times. Now i am sitting here and I am no longer attracted to my wife in the sense she doesn't make life interesting she is just there it seems. She is a great mother but as a wife I think I can train a monkey to be a better wife then her. Sex is not the issue its just every thing else. I work 5-7 days a week 8-14 hours a day and I cook both breakfast and dinner. I am to the point where I don't want to be with my wife because emotionally and physically she isn't there. I don't even want to have sex with her I feel I am ready to move on and be single because I know some one else out there would appreciate me a little more. I wake up and cook breakfast, then god off to work when i get off work I don't relax I go home and Cook dinner then my wife asks me to do more like dishes, clean up a little or some thing for her when I have explained that I wanted some time and some stuff just for me. I know i am a great husband and father but in the same statement I need more I want more and I am tired of settling for less. I mean I have told her some issues i wasn't happy about she "trys" to fix them for all of 1 day or 2 then its the same old stuff. AM i wrong for feeling like this, What do you suggest?

I am between the age of 20-35 and I was told last week I need to get on a cane to prevent further damage. I have always believed I would be old and grey and fighting the issue of a cane. Yet i am young and I am being told i need to get one now. I ordered a cane and it is sitting in my house. I look at it as a symbol that I wont ever be the same person/husband/dad if I start using it. I know it sounds foolish but when i was younger what i depended on more then any thing was the fact I was strong and fast. Now i am a little older I depend on my mind but I do like the feeling my body is keeping right up with my mind. So in a sense I am feeling like if my body is going already what will happen to my mind. Any suggestions on this subject please? Any inside thought? any one else on a cane early?

I have been married for a while now and my wife is a stay at home mother. When I am home and I go off some where within the house she asks all the time where are you going. Honestly i don't mind answering the question but come on when it comes to me heading towards the restroom and you ask it's kind of self explanatory. Then when my wife is given the answer that i am using the restroom she wants to know what I plan on doing in there and about how long will i be. I understand the whole issue I am at work all day long and she wants to spend time with me but seriously do you need to know where your man is 100% of the time or what he plans on doing?

My wife and I bought a Nintendo Wii last night with the Wii Fit. Well I was screwing around with it this morning and the Wii fit stated I was Obese and the Wii Age of 28. I am 20 years old, 6'3" and 251 pounds I am mainly muscle but yet It states I am Obese. If you own one and you are of a heavy muscular nature and own a Wii fit does ti say your over weight as well? IS it really suited to help people lose weight or does it have a bias nature because of weight instead of the physical nature of the person?

I was sitting at home last night and a buddy of mine came over. We got ont he subject texas starting to make a stand towards craigslist calling it an online prostitution sight. I kind of laughed at that because i have used craigslist before to purchase some items. He got up and used my Laptop and went to craigslist and placed an ad stating he was looking for a female between the ages of 24 and 36 for oral pleasures no strings attached. I sat there stating that he would not get a single message and this morning he came over before we reported in and he had 23 messages from people asking for his pics, stating they would preform the action as long as he hosted, also started stating prices for those actions. Is it me or is it CRAZY how even our children if they wanted to could post an ad on there for any thing that they can provided sexual pleasures for certain items. Do you think it's getting out of hand? Is it just me or is this world getting to where every thing is derived off sex and secrets.

Please when reading this understand I am not disproving god, heaven or hell if that's what you believe in I am objectively offering a different view point of the world and beyond. I know this may be a bit confusing or hard to understand in some aspect, like I said it’s just my theory and nothing more now with all that said here it is.

The human body runs off energy and electricity in small (very small amounts) you need energy to make your heart beat, and for every function your body performs. My theory is when you die you doing not fly to the heavens but you exist here on earth just on a different plain so to speak. Meaning us as alive human beings can not see the dead mainly because we can not see energy (electricity) is spaced out forms and beings our ocular receptors just can't pick it up all the time. Using the Ghost hunting techniques there are several interments that they use that is to pick up thermal and electrostatic abnormalities to where we get full images or partial images of beings or figures. Every thing in this world needs some sort of energy from the grass to the sky is all has energy built up inside of it. Miracles I believe are done by those who has past on because they them self’s are still some sort of energy so they may use some of that to reactivate the heart, brain or lungs to where even us as doctors can not explain why they are alive. So I feel we are all connected and all live in a constant state of energy, god, Jesus, Buddha, Shiva all exist in there own energy forms past the world we can physically see. So my theory is when we die we don't shoot to the heavens and look down on the world from the clouds, I feel we stand on earth look around and lend our energy to those in need.

For those who believe in demons and hellish creatures those could just be the people who where angry when they died had felt like something was lost, something isn't the way it was suppose to be or feel they where ripped off in some sort of way so they become angry and more angry to the point they lash out and harm the living in pursuit to keep there original life left alone and unforgotten.

So I think there are bad beings, good beings who will be the ones who create miracles who turn on lights unlock doors for you, and the ones who just don't interfere because they rather just watch or have nothing invested in to the fact or current world at large.

I am very curious what other people think about this theory and please don't say it’s a bunch of make up fairy tells. I want to know why you don't believe it why you do, what you believe in and why you do and what proof you have to show it.

Please when reading this understand I am not disproving god, heaven or hell if that's what you believe in I am objectively offering a different view point of the world and beyond. I know this may be a bit confusing or hard to understand in some aspect, like I said it’s just my theory and nothing more now with all that said here it is.

The human body runs off energy and electricity in small (very small amounts) you need energy to make your heart beat, and for every function your body performs. My theory is when you die you doing not fly to the heavens but you exist here on earth just on a different plain so to speak. Meaning us as alive human beings can not see the dead mainly because we can not see energy (electricity) is spaced out forms and beings our ocular receptors just can't pick it up all the time. Using the Ghost hunting techniques there are several interments that they use that is to pick up thermal and electrostatic abnormalities to where we get full images or partial images of beings or figures. Every thing in this world needs some sort of energy from the grass to the sky is all has energy built up inside of it. Miracles I believe are done by those who has past on because they them self’s are still some sort of energy so they may use some of that to reactivate the heart, brain or lungs to where even us as doctors can not explain why they are alive. So I feel we are all connected and all live in a constant state of energy, god, Jesus, Buddha, Shiva all exist in there own energy forms past the world we can physically see. So my theory is when we die we don't shoot to the heavens and look down on the world from the clouds, I feel we stand on earth look around and lend our energy to those in need.

For those who believe in demons and hellish creatures those could just be the people who where angry when they died had felt like something was lost, something isn't the way it was suppose to be or feel they where ripped off in some sort of way so they become angry and more angry to the point they lash out and harm the living in pursuit to keep there original life left alone and unforgotten.

So I think there are bad beings, good beings who will be the ones who create miracles who turn on lights unlock doors for you, and the ones who just don't interfere because they rather just watch or have nothing invested in to the fact or current world at large.

I am very curious what other people think about this theory and please don't say it’s a bunch of make up fairy tells. I want to know why you don't believe it why you do, what you believe in and why you do and what proof you have to show it.

I have already paid the $9.95 for the full game and upgrades. If you want to play for free the whole game with all weapons and levels. Unlock it with this email (my email) irish_lad_921@yahoo.com. Its a very fun game and i want to share it free to people that want to play. To play it free go to.

http://www.rocksolidarcade.com/games/robokill/

then click the register box in the lower right corner and where it says place email here place this email. irish_lad_921@yahoo.com and hit submit it will say thank you for your purchase (no you did not buy any thing and it costs me nothing) and you will be able to play for free. just leave a thanks here please and have fun.

Well before you ask no this is not like high school/collage/middle school football. This is for a minor league pro football. I am not a spring chicken any more and i have hand knee injury's from when i use to play. I played all threw grade school 4th grade till i was a Senior in high school. Now i am older and just saw they are starting a minor league pro football team and a buddy from high school who also didn't get a football scholarship is talking me in to going and trying out because i was a bit thing in high school. But now that i am older and settled down and have a daughter i put on 30 pounds, i am 6'3" 261 pounds, I told my wife and she is suggesting against it for the main reason if i get hurt more in my knee's i might be in a wheel chair (i already use a cane at times). This league also pays there players and it would always be great to have more money coming in and me having fun at a sport i use to play. Am i keeping this boyish dream alive for no reason and thinking of my self? Is it smart to go back at this age,(i am under 30 years old). What do you suggest?

I know when i was growing up was forced to go to church every monday, sunday and Wednesday , i really didn't want to go not only because it was boring but i wanted to find a higher being in my own way. Well i was at a social with my wife and daughter and our friends asked if she had been baptized yet and we said no we want her to make that choice on her own and every one there looked at us weird saying you have to go to church and you have to have her blessed. When really i believe that if parents force some one to believe something it will do them no good.

Do you make your children go to church?

Did you baptize them when they where baby's?

Would you allow them to change religions if they wanted?

The back story is the woman that still has a thing for me i have and always will treat her like a little sister nothing more and nothing less. My wife keeps thinking it's going to be something more one can and it pisses me off because it's never crossed my mind and i am not going to give up a great friend who i have had for allot longer then i have known my wife. yes this woman has a huge crush on me still and its just a kind of child hood crush you never get over and we all have them. But my wife is just to insecure with our relationship because she knows if something where to happen to me she would not be able to do any thing with her self. How do i keep this great friend who also talks to my wife and my wife has complete access to all emails and text messages i don't hide a thing how to make my wife understand she is a friend like a sister and nothing more with out her wanting me to choose between a life long friend or my wife.

Like a woman can have a bad hair day and blame there foul mood on it.

Women can be on there monthly cycle and be complete pains for a week and men have to just kind of deal with it.

A woman can wear a man's clothing and it's sexy but a man can't wear a woman's clothing and look sexy.

A woman can take pictures of them self's and they look sexy a man looks goofy if there trying to seem sexy.

What are some other things that women can do that men can't?

I always find it funny to hear what other people have happen with there spouse around that is embarrassing here are a couple of mine.

1. When we where dating i had a friend that was a pyro and that wanted to spray Axe spray and light it towards my shirt to burn a hole in it. Well he did and i allowed him but what i did not know is once he was done my shirt was still burning (my wife did not tell me she stood there laughing).

2. One evening I was trying to be suave and sexy so i jumped up on to the bed tried doing a little dance but the ceiling fan hit me in the head and i fell off the bed she was laughing so hard she was crying.

3. This is the grandest one when my daughter was being born every time my wife got done pushing, i would try and give her a hi-five don't ask my why i just did being a stupid first time dad in the delivery room, It was so bad i hi-fived all the doctors and nurses in the delivery room, and my new born daughter. I didn't think i looked super stupid till i realized i actually did it.

It's amazing on how these stupid moment that we have bring us closer to our partners in life and make it more intresting.

It's always a question on yahoo answers how do i look honestly.

Is it me or is it a bunch of teens taking pic of them self in the mirrors?

Why does every one want vendacation from people they don't know how they look to them?

Here a pic of me and i dont care what people think

http://images.net3media.com/funnyfreepics/funny_fa...

Well here is the story i was invited to china for a good friends wedding, and its happening next month. My wife was invited as well but she does not wish to ge because of the customs and the pollution over there but i am still going because i am his best man. His sister back when we where kids had a thing for me but never amounted to anything. I have always been loyal to her and i have never even had the thought about cheating. She keeps saying if she isn't going then i am not going when she is not going because she doesn't want to go. Should i just ditch my friends wedding or is my wife over reacting?

I went to my best friend wedding last week and was the best man. Well prior to that me and his soon to be wife where hanging out at a bar and she ended up flirting with another man and i kinda just ignored it mainly due to it was just flirting. Well i saw her getting closer to this other man so i stepped in and talked to her and she threw a fit and went back and slept with the man, 1 month later my best friend calls me saying she is pregnant and how he is so happy. So i call her and ask her to get a paternity test so she did and he was confused why but took it any ways (he isn't the most observant or best one to figure things out, he is just blinded by his love for her) well the test came back it's not his child and so she called me asking me to keep it a secret because she did not want to have me tell him she wanted tot ell him her self. So i waited now its 16 months later we are sitting at the dinner table with each other and she asks me to come out side for a sec and she tells me she never got the nerve to tell him that there son isn't of his blood. So she asks me to keep it a secret forever and i told her i can not do that he needs to know so i would give her till the day before the wedding day to let him know so he can fully know what he is getting in to. So the day before she told me that she told him so i went out as a friend to talk to him and asked him so how did you take the news. He gave me a weird look and said i took it well seeing how there is no bad news. So knowing he has no clue about it i talk to his soon to be and asked her to please tell him he needs to know so she said she would do it in the evening. On the wedding day he still did not know so i objected in the middle of the wedding and asked for us to take a small break to tell him. When i told him he said he was calling off the whole wedding.

She is now trying to sue me for the cost of the wedding because i am the reason it was called off. We have a court case in 2 weeks and she is sueing me for 12,000$ in wedding cost can she win this case or not?

My wife and I have been married for a while now and have 1 wonderful daughter. We have had our fair share of issues and problems like we all do and all will.

Well here lately I have told her that I was tired, bored and unhappy with things as they have been here lately. It's pretty much the same thing every day from my prospective I wake up and go to get something to eat (when my wife and daughter have been downstairs for 20-45min already), I like to lay in bed for a bit to fully prepare for the day, like I was saying they have been down stairs already and I kind of expect that our daughter has been given breakfast already. So I go to fix my self some cereal, oatmeal, or eggs to start my day and my daughter is following me around the house because she is hungry and I usually give her my meal to make sure she eats and end up having to leave with out eating. Trust me I don't mind at all giving my daughter my meal as long as she eats I am happy. But I like to eat something as well before I go and the only time I seem to be able to do that is if I wake up early and make a full fledged breakfast. The next thing I do is go to work and deal with the things of the day threw work, while I am at work my wife likes to text me about every little thing that makes her upset threw the day that my daughter does in witch I truly don't mind her sharing her feelings but I am at work and don't need more stress. Then the drive from home as we all know about 6pm-8pm is the high traffic times. When I finally get home my wife runs threw the day saying every little thing that our daughter did and that the dogs did and how she is tired of the dogs and all that fun stuff. then I usually pick up the living room because its trashed from our daughter being a kid, ask my wife what’s for dinner and get the usual answer "I don't know" so then I ask again around 9pm and I get the same answer and I usually have to get up and cook dinner.

I have talked to her that I need decompression time when I come home only 15min and I Never get that, I have asked that she does more around the house because she doesn't work outside the home, Yes I know being a house mom is the hardest job out there, I even offer to give her time to her self to kind of decompress after her day. I have asked her to cook dinner at least twice a week and we cook 6 days a week so I would be cooking 4 times a week. I have asked her to just allow me to take some time to do something else. Yes even our "love" life has suffered a bit as well because I have become a bit bored with it because it’s basically the same thing the same way, I'm not saying I want to do any thing new or crazy more or less I want the delivery of it different instead of the kind of ok hop on. We both still find it pleasurable it’s just the delivery of it there’s no fore play or sensual acts to bring it on like I said it’s more or less hop on. I also tend to do most of the house maintaining like washing dishes, picking up the house washing the dogs, vacuuming the house and all that fun stuff, we wouldn't even have clean clothing if I didn't wash them on my off days. When I talk to her about how I am not happy with things that are going on if the TV is on she stairs at the TV and if I turn it off she stairs at the wall and then when I ask her about some of the general things I said while we where talking I get that good old answer "I don't know or I don't remember", its very frustrating.

I do love my wife and I know this is pretty long of a question but I need honest answer from other married couples that have been married at least over a year. I need honest suggestions on how to fix it or if it’s unfixable

I was looking threw the questions and stumbled upon the men and women asking about abortions and asking advice how to deal with it.

Even if you think its murder or against your god, don't you think there should be some sort of human compassion for the person or people making this hard decision?

I honestly think its your choice and if some one is seeking help on making the choice or dealing with there choice that was made for a good reason in there mind then they deserve compassion from a human point of view even if you think its taking the life of another human. If you wish to be rude to people when they ask for help remember you may be asking that same person for help, or they may be the one trying to save your life or delivering your child. So i want to hear what gives people the sense of human decency to demoralize some ones choice and call them a murder.

I want to hear peoples honest thoughts and what if you needed help from that person would you ask for it or let your self deal with it.

She wants to go out drinking with her mother , and her mother is one of those people who think 1or 2 drinks and she can still drive. Last time i had to go pick her and her coworker they both swore they only had 2 drinks and the drinks might of been drugged. Honestly it was just they had way more then 2 drinks and where uber smashed. I would drive them both my self to and from but i can't naturally leave my daughter at the house alone or take her to a bar. Would it be better to hire a personal drive for that night or drive them up there drop them off then come back and pick them both back up?

Should i just trust them to be smart about it if there to intoxicated to not drive.