wellbeing

What if your spouse lied, taking money without saying anything about a big purchase, that they spent time planning and didn't tell you about it, something selfish that was just for them. But you had just recently agreed to save money and not spend it. Without being vindictive, or mean, how would you handle that? Not to leave the person, but to deal with the betrayal even if they turn around and blame it on you as a justification for their own bad behavior. Is there anything to do in that situation? I'm really not finding one.

I have no problems setting boundaries, but I get lost in setting consequences. For example, if someone is yelling at me, I can set the consequence of walking out of the room until they calm down. But what kind of consequences are there for not following through on agreements, or if someone lies to you? I don't want to be mean or vindictive, but I want some tools to say "I notice you did not follow through on your agreement with me, so now I will......." what is fair? And about lying too? How do you set healthy consequences for these? Is there some sort of formula to this that might help?

Lately, anytime I've had an issue with my husband, he starts saying all these off base comments about me. Things like "I think something is seriously wrong with you", or how I have no self-esteem, etc... NOTHING is wrong with me, I am not mentally ill and I am perfectly rational. My self-esteem is just fine too other than my dealings with him as none of our problems are getting addressed, but I hear at length about everything he thinks is wrong with me. He doesn't act like that if we are getting along, only if I bring up something that is troubling me, then the things that he says to me are hurtful. How can I communicate when things are like this? I don't want to keep hearing how I'm "mentally ill", I want resolution to the problems that are bothering me, the problems in themselves are not major, but enough that I feel the need for resolution to them, but the way they are being creates big problems.

If you were given the opportunity to own a lingerie shop, or a sex toy shop, which would you choose and why and why do you think you would make more money with the decision you made?

There are tons of sex guides/how-to's/etc... on the market, whether you are single or not - but what is the one thing you are dying to know about that you can't find information on?

Thousands of emails have gone out, spamming people using our information and even our email addresses. We don't know how to stop this and the headers are forged, so we can't track the I.P. address. Is there anyone that can help, or let us know what we should do?

What are some things you would say to your partner if she surprised you by wearing some gorgeous lingerie - be creative - "You look hot" is boring. ....

Ambiance has "Store for Lovers"

RedDoorStore has "World's Finest Erotic Boutique"

What can you think of that would be a great tagline for a lingerie/romance store?

What is sexier to you, a woman with small, but attractive breasts that is confident and natural with her body, or someone that gets breast implants? Please explain your preference.

If he said the only reason he married you is because you issued an ultimatum. That's after you told him clearly that you don't want him to marry you unless it was what he wanted.

If you and your partner create a goal together to grow business by the end of the year, and you both work towards the goal you set, and find at the end of the year that you are reaching your goal - which statement would you use with your partner and why?

1. I'm so happy I reached my goal.

2. I'm so happy we reached our goals.

I'm newly married to a man with children. Everyone keeps telling me to "Step up and be the step mother", that is the most vague and general statement ever. They have a mom. What exactly am I supposed to be doing to "Step up and be a step mother"? I'm all ready doing things like supporting my husband in his role of father, making sure the kids are cared for in way of food and clothing - what am I missing here?

Veritatis et cetquitatis tenax - Can anyone tell me how you would pronounce that in English, I know what it means, but would like to know how to say it properly.

What is the best thing about owning a multi-tool? Why couldn't you work without it?

What's another short statement that could be used in place of "Cut the crap"? Cut the bull, or cut the b.s. is not working....

I am looking for the pronunciation of this Irish word, but I forgot to mention it's Irish, how would you say it using english? Daibheid

Please let me know how you would pronounce this word in english.

How do you pronounce the following -

Maith

aon

mealltach

thit mo (two words)

Why do you think it's important that kids have regular house chores and what are appropriate things to ask a 12 and 14 year old to do to help around the house. Both are boys, but that shouldn't make a difference.

I've heard so much about Americans being upset about the immigrants and all the problems they think they cause. Well, how do you think about it when you have to remember that we are all immigrants here? Even the native American was not indigenous to America, but they would be the closest to the TRUE American race, every other one of us, no matter how long our families lived here, ARE immigrants. So you are actually complaining about something your family was to begin with - an immigrant. So, why do you feel it's okay to complain about the new immigrants coming over today as if you aren't one yourself?