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Long story short, if I get divorced their dad will have very minimal (like once a year) contact with their father because he will have to move out of state due to his means and support where we live now.

I am having a tough time making a decision, I love my husband very much, but we just don't work well together. This is making things harder with my husband not working to better himself even though he wants to. Should I stay hoping things get better, or leave him? I think I am having such a hard time because if I leave him, it is over, and I will always wonder if things would have gotten better.

It is just that he doesn't want to do anything about it, and it prevents him from doing so much. He doesn't want to better himself at all.

I have done a little research and am only able to find that alcohol helps headaches, but for me it is the only thing that helps. I have not been able to get them diagnosed, is there a type of headache that is helped with alcohol and not helped with painkillers? (vicodin doesn't even help them). And why does alcohol help when it is suppose to hinder?

I love him, and I don't want to leave him, but there are key things that I don't like:

1. I am sick of being with someone that is over 350lbs, complains about it and uses it for excuses, but does nothing about it.

2. I am sick of being with someone that cannot see that they are doing something wrong, like when he spends money that we don't have, but he thinks it is just fine because he got a really good deal.

3. Every once and a while, it would be nice to be taken care of. I don't ask for it much, but it would be a nice thing when I am sick or overwhelmed.

I don't have an anger management problem, most people have no clue that I ever get mad at all, I manage it quite well with work, realizing the important things, and exercise, but I am sick of being angry. It's not that I need to stop the anger after something makes me angry, I am just angry all the time because the world is a cruel place. I am usually quite happy though, even with the anger. With all this said, how do I stop when there is so much to be angry about?

I don't have an anger management problem, I manage it quite well with work, realizing the important things, and exercise, but I am sick of being angry. How do I stop when there is so much to be angry about?

Long story short:

Been married for 6 years

Have 3 kids

He does not work, does not have a drivers license, and pretty much depends on me

He has anger management problems that I cannot handle anymore, I am not scared of him, the stress just gets to me

He also does not like to be touched where as I need it in a relationship, when we first got together he knew that it was important that I share the bed with whomever I am with and he has slept on the couch for 5 years

I have decided I cannot live with him anymore, but every time I try to talk to him about it I chicken out because I feel guilty because he does depend on me and I feel bad for breaking up the family. I have already tried talking to him multiple times to try and mend the relationship, but things never changed for good. Any advice as to how to go about it so everything ends well?

Long story short:

Been married for 6 years

Have 3 kids

He does not work, does not have a drivers license, and pretty much depends on me

He has anger management problems that I cannot handle anymore

He also does not like to be touched where as I need it in a relationship

I have decided I cannot live with him anymore, but every time I try to talk to him about it I chicken out because I feel guilty. Any advice as to how to go about it so everything ends well?

I cannot stop thinking about this guy I dated about 7 years ago. We only dated for a couple of days before I got back together with my ex, and now I have been married for the past 6 years, but I still cannot get him out of my head no matter how hard I try.

Quick details, I dated a guy for 3 years, ended badly but we both mutually agreed the relationship was over. Dated a bunch of people since then, and now have been married for 6 years. I had a dream last night that started out with me and my ex at a car race as friends, then we started to get cuddly and it was comfortable, even though the last time I saw him it was very uncomfortable. What could this mean?

Rundown:

3 wonderful kids, all under the age of 5

Husband stays home with them, I work

We both love the kids very much, and love each other, but more like friends

He has an anger management problem, yells a lot

I have a stress problem, yelling makes it worse, I can't sleep and am always exhausted

I also have a hard time sleeping alone, we have not slept in the same bed for 5 years

We are intimate maybe once ever 1-2 years, intimacy is very important in a relationship for me

He refuses therapy

I have tried figuring out what is going through his head, how he feels, and he puts up a wall

He doesn't want to be touched, so it has nothing to do with me being "sexy" in the bedroom

If we split he will no longer get to see the kids much because he would be forced to move out of state due to not being able to provide for himself...his choice, I have tried to encourage/support him in whatever he wanted to do, even took fewer classes while I was getting my degree to help him just to have him drop out.

I am about at my wits end, I don't want to end things and wonder what if? but I also can't keep living this way because I am unhappy. What do I do?

The gist of the situation is that there is no physical intimacy and he has anger problems that stress me out very much. I cannot even remember the last time we touched each other, let alone snuggled. When we first got married I told him how important it was for me to share a bed with my other half, but we have not in 5.5 years.

The reason I don't want to end it: I love him very much and we have 3 children together. The family works very well and the kids would grow up without a dad because he would be forced to move out of state if we split. He is completely dependent on me.

So my question is, should I walk away? or is my reasons for the relationship going on worth it?

Long story short, my husband does not like being touched, it hasn't always been this way but it has been for the past couple of years. I asked this before, but did not get any real answers. I am wondering how to do I cope without intimate contact, I don't need sex (even though it would be welcome) just the snuggles. What can I do to prevent me from wanting it?

I have had a multitude of symptoms over the past few years but when I was pregnant with my third child I started having moments lasting about 15 minutes of everything getting dark, hearing loss, and the need to sit or lay down. Has anyone else had this happen? What is it caused by? I have already had an MRI of my brain for a different reason with nothing found.

you found out she was raped at a young age? Not saying in a bad way, just differently.

I asked this yesterday but would like more input.

if you found out she was raped at a very early age? Saying you did not know this when you got married.