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i had a spray tan friday night i done all the things they had told me to do prior, after a couple hours i worried a little because it seemed very dark when i txted the lady she said it was fine an most of it would come off in the bath the following day...when i woke the next morning i was very dark orange it looked awful i bathed three times and had to scrub my face an eventually it calmed down a bit but my hands were orange even the palms! and my feet looked like id walked through poo they were so awful i couldnt wear flip flops plus after the baths i used deodorant which seemed to strip the colour off under my arms and left my white top covered in tan which she said would not happen, i txted her only to receive a stroppy message back about it never happened to anyone else so i must have done something wrong! following this by today (sun) i have white marks where my necklace sits i have white marks where my bra straps sit i have white marks across my tummy and my feet look worse then ever! my knees are white my face is patchy and it seems to be disappearing already ...but in a really bad patchy way! please please tell me of this is the norm as i cant see why people would go back if this is the outcome! thanks x

i was with my partner for three years and i am 6 months pregnant with his child, until last week when i found out he lied to me about taking his ex away for a few days with their son to visit his family, im sure nothing happened with them but i was angry with him for lying and the fact that he hadn't contacted me for three days (he said he lost his phone and only found it whilst packing) we got into an argument about it and he 'attacked' me. he never hit or kicked and he didn't hurt me but it terrified me, i called the police just to scare him off but now they wont drop charges and say its domestic violence. is it? ive been reading up about domestic violence and he doesn't fit the examples, he never puts me down, he always looks after me and he has apologised sincerely for the incident saying it was completely his fault and he regrets it and he said he will go to anger management. he is on bail now and is not allowed to contact me for a month until they come to a decision about whether to send him to court or not. i do still love him and i am carrying his child i don't know if we can ever be together again because i wont put up with this behaviour but i want him there for the baby and i want him there for the birth. am i being a mug my friends all think im 'stupid' please advise. many thanks

i have a y reg 2001 picasso i bought it in january, all of a sudden a few weeks ago it started running really lumpy...hard to describe but it 'bunny hops' whilst driving, looks like a really bad learner driver! it also stalls at junctions or in low revs also stalls if reversing and sometimes even when idle! dad changed the oxygen sensor, put new spark plugs in etc etc but still no change, he said the throttle was loose so has tightened that up yesterday. but still runs lumpy.

when he put spark plugs in he adjusted them to the amount the manual said but engine was awful jumping about worse then ever so he has gone back the old methods of plugs and coils 15 ml or 25 ml or something?

please advise i don't have alot of money to repair if something major is wrong, someone said it could be the exhaust someone else said it could be the fuel pump but no one seems to know what they are talking about please help.

many thanks

i have just found out that im pregnant thanks to three positive tests! im very happy about it but its early days and i have previously had an ectopic and miscarrage, i also have a four year old daughter.

i must only be four weeks but no symtoms except tummy cramps and sharp pains which i had with my daughter, also bloated and gassy, very tierd and sore boobs.

but no metallic taste, no morning sickness etc im paranoid that that means baby isnt alive in there! please help is it just too early??

my 11 month old male border collie was off his food yesterday and hasnt eaten anything today not even his favourate chewy, his poo has been runny for a couple of days too, and was sick twice yesterday.both he and my other border collie- 12 months had fleas a few weeks ago and were deflead with frontline (as usual) and i had the pest control people in to clean the house (not that they found any fleas!) my other collie is fine and eating with no problems, they have been eating wainwrights puppy dry food for about a month and a half and there condition since being on is much better. as far as i can tell he is drinking water and he isnt dehydrated, any advice?

ok here goes...sorry!

i am 26 i met my b/f online 2 yrs ago, he started to work down by me so we could see each other more and he stayed alot at my house, things were great, after a yr we got engaged, then i fell pregnant an it kicked off, he was horrid telling me it wasn't his etc etc, we both have children from previous relationships, (although up until recently he didn't c his child) we split up and i lost the baby at 12 weeks, we stayed in touch an after a few months got bk 2gether and things were as normal, our relationship is either really really good or really bad, we go through patches of constant arguing and split up for a few wks then get bk 2gether, this last time was different though, i think he slept with someone else while we were apart as things were different in bed and he doesn't want to commit, he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me but doesn't act like it. recently he has been seeing his child again on a regular basis and things have got worse, every week he takes his ex out and their child but refuses to tel her he is in a relationship, she thinks hes single and flirts with him, he says he hates her but puts kisses on the end of some txt msgs and is always really friendly with her on fone. am i being a mug? can this ever work? before we had a future now i just dont know if hes using me until they get back together. none of my family and friends like him because when we row he threatens me and everybody says there is just something about him they dont trust. help

i have a one and a half year old male guinea pig, he has been off his food for a while but is now not drinking or eating his apple and carrots, he is really lethargic, has very runny eyes that are half closed, all his coat is ruffled up, i cant get him to a vets yet so just need to make him more comfortable i have put a bowl of water in his hutch as well as his bottle, and put lots of shredded paper in his hutch. any advice??

i have two 7 month old male border collie pups, (seperate litters) my eldist boy wee's everywhere when he gets nervous!

It could be if someone shouts in my house or just sometimes if you call him he will run away from you weeing everywhere.

We have had him from 16 weeks old and has been toilet trained since he was about 17-18 weeks old.

I have never hit him or told him off badly im at my wits end now, we have had to rip up the carpets around the house where we were toilet training them and we are now having new laminate put down all downstairs and im worried about him weeing all over it and ruining it.

Any ideas on how to stop him getting so nervous??

He has lots of cuddles etc and they get enough exercise i just dont understand why he would get so nervous.

ok i have the worst hormones ever at the moment, when i was pregnant with my daughter 3 years ago: god help anyone near me i was an emotional mess, flying off the handle at the smallest things, but im definatly not pregnant as im on my period day 5, but my pmt lately has been really bad. i normally suffer quite bad pmt but its usually the week before my period and as soon as i come on im mellow but this time i just want to rip someones head off, i smashed up a table yesterday in my lounge because i was angry...for seemingly no reason. at the moment i want to curl up and die, please help what could be causing this and what could i do to stop it.

Ok so i have a 99 vectra and its done 191000 miles!!

Ive only had it about 3 months, now heres the problem..

car used to cut out in low revs until i had it serviced and the rocker cover gasket replaced as it was leaking, it was fine for a while but most recently it has lost its power, it judders in high gear and sometimes in lower gears when it feels like it wants to stall and now when you start it up and drive it- its really noisy like it has a really chunky exhaust (which it does not) and the whole car shudders. no warning lights are coming up on the dash but it does have a tendency to heat up between the 80 and 100 mark when driving.

a friend said its the exhaust blowing badly. someone else said it could be the catalytic converter.

anyone have any ideas. thank you

my mum has aquired a kitten of 5 weeks, i told her it was far too young to leave its mum but the man wanted rid of the litter. any advice for a kitten of this age please

ok so i have two male border collie puppies, one is 17 weeks old and one is 22 weeks old. we got them from two seperate litters four weeks apart.

we have had them for about two months now and love them to bits, i will soon have to make the desision to castrate one or both of them, i was going to keep them both entire but dont want them to fight- will this happen if we keep them entire??

also i would like to breed from one at least, none of them have papers and i would not be doing it for any money just thought it would be nice for them to father a litter. i will be doing agility with them when they are older.

so really id like some advice on whether or not i should breed one or both or have them both castrated or just one?? also how late is too late to have them castrated without them being riggy? thanks

ok so i already have a three year old daughter so im not completely unused to this however, myself and my partner had unprotected sex and i am not on the pill- bit of an accident!! anyway that was on sunday 10th may, now maybe im just being really paranoid but ive been getting cramps, lower backache, really tierd and irritable, and peeing alot. i cant test until im due on the 28th but im thinking maybe im just thinking im pregnant but all these symptoms are paranoia. what do you think??

ive also been having alot of trouble sleeping tossing and turning putting it down to being preg however maybe its just because im worrying?

my 12 week old male border collie puppy has a sore pink tummy! he was fine when we got him 4 weeks ago but after having him flead 2 days after i got him he started biting and scrathing himself-mostly back legs and tummy, the vet said that although she couldnt see any fleas they could be there even though i had treated him, she also said that instead of the bob martin flea drop that nxt time i should give him frontline( he is due to be flead again tomorrow and i will be using this) i bathed him in gentle puppy shampoo and started putting a little olive oil in his feed thinking it could be dry skin but his tummy is now sore, and he is still biting it. i now have another border collie pup- 17 weeks old. and they do play fairly rough so im wondering if this could be the cause? any ideas? or advice? maybe i could use a cream on it but not sure what pls help

i have two male border collie puppies from different litters, one is 17 weeks old and the other is 12 weeks old. i was feeding my 12 week old pup 40g of dry food 4 times a day but he is still very slim while i feed the 17 week old 50g four times a day and he is a chunk (i have only had the older one a week and the previous owner gave him a "bowlful" three times a day) im worried that they are not getting enough or too much?? i feed my younger boy on james wellbeloved puppy dry mix with a tablespoon of butchers puppy wet food and i am weaning the older boy off his morrisons dry mix with pedigree chum dry and a tablespoon of wet. pls help ta x

i have a new16 week old long haired collie, the problem is one of his back feet are deformed- its hard to explain but one of his paw pads is split in two and half of it has the claw on it but it sort of hangs off! any advice? i will be taking him to the vet but was worried.

ok so i fell in love and bought my border collie puppy sooty 4 weeks ago, he is now 12 weeks old and we adore him, we now really want another border collie and we have found a 16 week old male puppy who is gorgeous, however i need to be 100% sure before buying him as i dont want to let either puppy down and want to do my best for both. ive heard people say that two males will always fight? is this true? also i just assumed it would be easier and more fun to train two instead of one but people have said that it will be much harder work to train two of them. i dont want to jump in with two feet without looking into it please help.

my boyfriend has offered me a straight swap- my N reg 1.3 fiesta with a T reg 2l vauxhall vectra that he aquired through part exchange. the car is in good condition however it has nearly 200.000 miles on the clock (used to be a rep car) and it hasnt been serviced for 80.000 miles!! (will be having it serviced next month when i have the money)now the problem is that it keeps cutting out in low revs then when you start it up again it cuts out straight away before you touch anything! it doesnt always do it but it scares me when i have my daughter in the car and it decides to cut out in the middle of me turning right into a junction with cars coming towards me at 40mph!! please help i would really like to keep the car but worry that it will pack up once my boyfriend has sold my fiesta then ill be left without a car. could it be the fuel pump? or something more serious please help.

i have a 10 week old border collie puppy, i have not owned border collies before and want to make sure i train him and look after him properly, i will be taking him to training classes when he has had his second lot of jabs but what can i do with him at home? he is pretty good with his toilet and goes on the puppy pads but we need to train him to go in the garden and he seems to have already decided he is head of the household!! we have a three year old daughter whom he chases everywhere and nips at her which we expected but need to encourage him not to nip also need some basic home training ie 'off', 'stay', 'leave' etc can anyone recommend a good border collie book as i really want to train him properly and effectively. thankyou

i bought an 8 week old border collie pup 5 days ago. i had to travel 200 miles to get him. he was £60 to buy and they had given us the wrong address therefore we arranged to meet them at a nearby garage thinking they would show us where the house was to see the pup, but they brought the pup with them!! we were told his parents were both collie but his litter was an accident and he was the last to go being the runt of the litter. i love him to bits he has the most lovely temprement, fantastic character etc, ive taken him to the vet for his first jab, also i have wormed him. flead him, microchipped him and insurered him. what is worrying is ive tried contacting the lady i got him from but with no avail!! plus he has started scratching and biting and has diarrhea i have changed him from his wet food to a quality complete mix do you think this is why or maybe hes ill please help. thanks